It's More Than A Drawl, Ya'll.

Menu Plan Monday ~ August 30

2010-08-30T10:23:00.000-04:00

First week of menu planning was great! I totally, totally, totally LOVE coming home from work, having groceries in the kitchen and having a plan. It rocks and it shall continue.

Not all things happened exactly this past week. For instance, on Wednesday, I was supposed to make acorn squash and didn’t get home until 8. So, that wound up being a Lean Cuisine. I wanted to spend Sunday trying the butternut squash, but MC needed to run some errands. She started at UNC this past week so I picked her up and we had some Sunday Funday Tacos. YUMMY!

I also tried a Tomato Turkey Sausage Pizza on Friday night with Kara. It’s a recipe from Cooking Light (sorry, but I can’t find it online). Potential is there. I think I need a different, thicker crust so the tomatoes can cook longer and get wrinkly without the crust burning. Then, it would be spot on.

And, of course, an oldie but a goodie.

Well, that’s that and here’s this week’s menu plan. I did it in 30 minutes, so I’m not 100% sure I’m totally excited about everything I’m cooking. But, all in all, this week was pretty easy to plan. Last week’s girl’s dinner was pushed out a week so there’s Thursday and we have a four day weekend on the horizon! Mr. Huff is turning 30 and we’re planning on celebrating with him at Lake Norman.

Monday: Grilled Halibut with Peach and Pepper Salsa, Salad

Tuesday: Barbecue-Rubbed Pork Chops, Cucumbers Vinaigrette

Wednesday: Grilled Chicken and Lemon Salad

Thursday: David’s Noodle Bar with the girls

Friday: Huff Island

Saturday: Huff Island

Sunday: Huff Island

Did anyone else start menu planning? If so, how did it go?

I Just Have To Say

2010-08-24T10:18:00.000-04:00

Last night was one of the most stress-free, nice, relaxing nights of my life.

Leaving work at 5:30, heading home, not having to stop at the grocery and figure out what to eat. Going straight home and having a plan was the. best. thing. EVER.

And, I'm whipping up my Beef Tenderloin Steaks with Shiitake Mushroom Sauce (which were pretty tasty yet I failed to take a picture) when a friend of mine calls. Hey, I'm cooking dinner. Wanna come over? Awesome I tell you.

This morning, I put out my chicken to thaw. I plan to leave work at 5:30, head home and get to cookin.'

I'm soooo keeping up this menu planning thing. If it kills me.

DJ Got Us Falling In Love Again

2010-08-24T08:00:00.001-04:00

If you haven't heard it, what are you waiting for?

Menu Plan Monday ~ August 23

2010-08-23T13:10:00.000-04:00

Hi, friends. It’s been a while, but I’m back. I’m alive and I’m well.

I know I owe you some details into how my personal training is going (which has been going for almost five months and I’ve YET to tell you anything about it).

Well, let’s stop the small talk and get to it shall we?

My trainer Barry (or Bo Barry Biscuit as I call him) is always getting onto me about my diet habits. They are no good. He’s always saying it’s ‘80% diet, 20% exercise.’ I told him that I begged to differ. I think it’s ’90% diet, 10% exercise.’

But, I love food. I love to watch Food Network. I love to read cookbooks. I love to try new foods. I love to eat at neat restaurants.

However, I do not love to sit down and make a plan. Lack of planning is hurting me. I spend many a night leaving work at 7:00 wondering what in the world I’m going to eat. So, I do one of two things. I pick up take-out or I simply don’t eat. I went through a spell of not eating dinner. Not good.

Over the past few weeks, I keep saying to myself and friends that I need to plan my meals. I need to plan my meals. Well, I said it to Shelly and she said ‘Me too! Let’s do it and hold each other accountable!’ She’s my friend that loves to do stuff like this that all my other friends are like “you wanna do what?” That’s why I love her!

Here are the house rules we came up with:

1. We menu plan for dinners only to start with.

2. We load our menu for the week on our blog on Monday mornings (see Menu Plan Monday hosted by orgjunkie.com).

3. We are required to confirm that we have stuck to our meal plan (blog/post pictures of our meals as we go or on our next Monday menu plan post, we recap the previous week). Sure we can abandon a meal here or there, but this will help us stick to it.

So, here you have it. My first Menu Plan Monday. I’m excited and hope to make it better as time goes on.

A few things to point out about my first meal plan. Barry tries to get me to eat only protein after 5:00 p.m. I did it for a week straight back in July and saw some good results. The downside though is I get bored and then, I pig out. So, I’m going to try to get more creative with it and eat only protein after 5:00 p.m. Sunday-Thursday leaving to weekends free to have fun. So, if a dinner recipe calls for things other than protein, I will probably double the protein, eat only the protein for dinner and take the protein/veggie/side for lunch the next day. Weird, I know. We’ll see if it works and if I can stick to it.

Monday: Beef Tenderloin Steaks with Shiitake Mushroom Sauce, Spinach Salad, New Potatoes

Tuesday: Cilantro-Lime Chicken with Avocado Salsa

Wednesday: Stuffed Acorn Squash

Thursday: David’s Noodle Bar with the girls

Friday: Two-Tomato Turkey Sausage Pizza, Salad

Saturday: Annual Euchre Tournament and Cookout – hot dogs!

Sunday: Butternut Squash Ravioli, Spinach Salad (I’ve been dying to try to make this and I need a lazy Sunday with some time to get it done!)

My Swagger

2010-08-09T10:54:00.000-04:00

I just ordered this ottoman from Wal-mart. I've been stalking it out for months and when it hit clearance, I had to get it.

The plan is to pair it with a hot pink tufted chair a la Krista Ewart.

Play on player.

Why I Run

2010-07-13T11:15:00.001-04:00

'Cuz this could soooo happen if I didn't.

Via Lesh's Fat Booth app.

If I Want to Keep a Bobcat in My Coat Closet, I'm Gonna Do That

2010-06-29T15:23:00.000-04:00

Three months out from your 30th isn't too far ahead to start planning is it? So far, there's a trip to the Dominican in the works and I found out today that my favorite comedian Jon Reep will be in Clayton on October 23rd! Birthday tickets please! Clayton apparently has a civic center. Go figure.

Please take a moment to enjoy my favorite bit.

An Email to My Co-workers

2010-06-24T10:51:00.001-04:00

Dear Friends,

Throughout the sands of times, there have been many champions distinguished by exceptional courage and nobility and strength who have faced an evil agency whose glory was found in our hero’s destruction - Gadget and Dr. Claw, Optimus Prime and Magatron, Cinderella and the Ugly Stepsisters, Rapport and the BP Zone.

I have my own arch nemesis – the MMC candy jar. Yes. You now know who stole the candy from the candy jar. As I walk to the Situation Room, it whispers its teasing taunts from behind its cabinet door offering ‘just one little indulgence of chocolate, caramel, nougat, peanut goodness.’ One piece leads to another that leads to another. Next thing you know, I’ve fallen off the wagon and headed into a downward spiral of flat belly destruction.

Why should you care, you ask? Because every Batman needs a Robin. Someone to hold them accountable and to keep them in check. Still, why should you care, you ask? Because I’m offering an incentive. Should you catch me pilfering from that jar or its friend The Candy Closet, I will pay out to you $10. Yes. I’m that serious.
We must have courage, Friends. We can’t ignore the danger. We must conquer it.

Thank you for your support.

Faux Jack Rogers

2010-06-23T10:32:00.000-04:00

I was ordering my bridesmaid shoes for Lori's wedding and was excited to see that target.com has the faux Jack Rogers back in stock. I tried to get them a while back and their was nada. I ordered them in gold to get free shipping on my other shoes and...uh...'cuz I ain't about to use the equivalant of my monthly gas allowance on a pair of sandals. Maybe a purse, but not sandals. Use code: MT9ZC7RW at checkout to save 10%! I love an exciting deal! (Maybe I shouldn't be telling people my shoes are fake?)

We Gotta Make a Change

2010-06-22T17:57:00.000-04:00

That's what 2Pac said and that's what I'm doing.

Last time I was around, I announced that I was hiring a trainer. Well, thanks to this guy, I'm down seven pounds and 6% body fat. Holler!

There's been some ups (and a down) and I'm learning a lot about myself in the whole process (which I promise to share if I can get 2 seconds of free time). But, all in all, I've enjoyed the experience and can't wait for the guns to really blow up!

PS - He's not a scary as he looks although, he does have this sick enjoyment of making me run up a hill with 16 lbs. Yea. I said 16 lbs. Don't mess with me.

Texting With Vicki

2010-04-27T09:51:00.001-04:00

Saturday night at Anna's wedding reception

Me: Cupid Shuffle followed by Apple Bottom Jeans. I said 'where's Vic?'
Sticky Vicki: I always miss the party. No Lil Wayne?

A Few Things

2010-04-02T11:35:00.002-04:00

1) I've hired a trainer. We start next week. Blogs and guns forthcoming.

2) I ate a lot of REAL food this past week instead of processed stuff. Props to me.

3) To continue in the tradition of REAL food, I signed up for this. Can't wait!

4) I can't stop listening to this song.

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I Finally Got My Oatmeal

2010-03-25T14:21:00.002-04:00

As for the saucepan, I went with the Cusinart Multi-Clad Pro. Apparently, only the BB&B stores in the north carry this line so I had to order it (but still used the coupon). I'll let you know when it's in and what I think.

Saucey Saucey

2010-03-23T17:44:00.004-04:00

Overwhelmed is where I’m at. I need a saucepan so that I can make yummy things such as oatmeal and pasta. Try searching ‘stainless steel saucepan’ on cooking.com and you will get more than 80 product results. More than 80!! Makes my brain hurt.

I know a few things: I’m slowly building up my cookware collection so I want a large saucepan (better to start big and follow up small if you ask me), stainless steel and would love, love, love an All Clad.

So, after doing some browsing online and at Bed, Bath and Beyond and doing some product reviews, I turned to the Cook’s Illustrated’s equipment review for some guidance. Their top choice is (of course):

Da-Da-Da-Dum!

All-Clad Stainless Steel 4-Quart Covered Saucepan which comes in at a whopping $194.99. But, everyone knows that if you buy All-Clad, you’ll never have to buy again.

Their best buy is:

Cuisinart® MultiClad Unlimited™ 4-Quart Saucepan which according to Cook’s Illustrated’s equipment review performs just as well as the All Clad with the only set backs being that the Cuisinart cooks faster and shows wear more quickly.

I was leaning towards the Cuisinart and after further searching, I’ve come across what is apparently Cuisinart’s answer to the prestigious All Clad: the Cuisinart® MultiClad Pro Triple-Ply Stainless 4-Quart Saucepan with Lid.

After further online review searching, pretty much everyone is pleased with the Pro Triple-Ply Stainless series and those who also have All Clad mention that it is comparable and one comment that a lot of people make is that they prefer the handles on the Cuisinart to the All Clad. Hmmm….I do have tiny hands.

Well, I’m off to BB&B for what I hope is a purchase. I’ll let you know how it goes!

Here It Is

2010-03-11T10:36:00.000-05:00

Welcome Home!

2010-03-09T12:05:00.002-05:00

Hi ya'll!

It's been a busy couple of weeks, but I'm finally moved into my new abode. I have some stories to share and some advice to seek. But first, I need to catch up on some neglected tasks at work.

In the meantime, please delight in my new welcome mat that my good friend Shelly gave me!

The Change Vase

2010-02-26T22:53:00.004-05:00

I dunno. Two years ago? I started a jar of change.

I hate change. I don't like to dig for it. I don't like how it makes your fingers smell. I don't like holding up the line trying to find two pennies. And, it's heavy.

I don't spend it. I put it in a jar.

In October, I started doing the Dave Ramsey thing by using cash only and I collected more change because I don't spend it. The jar got full so I moved it to a vase. Every night, I empty my change into the jar, um vase.

Since I decided to move a few of weeks ago, that change vase has been looming there, knowing that I ain't gonna move that and egging my on to cash it in.

Tonight was the night. First, we had a fail on the way to the Harris Teeter Coin Star.

That was fun.

I also felt like a goober walking past college kids at the redbox on a Friday night at the Cameron Village Harris Teeter with my vase of change. And, I did draw a bit of attention with all the noise the machine was making.

But, it was worth it! May I forever be a goober! Cuz' guess how much money has been sittin' up in my house!?!?

$221.00 (and some change hehehehe)

Coin Star charges you a 10% fee so I only took home $199.79 which was a bit of a bummer.

And, before you start telling me what I shoulda done (and I know you will), let me say:
-Bank of America does not have a Coin Starish machine
-I called Coastal Federal Union and they do not have a Coin Starish machine
-I've been told State Credit Union has a Coin Starish machine so in hindsight, perhaps I should have gotten someone to take it there for me and maybe we have a lesson learned for next time, but that involves a bit of coordination and logistics and time
-I thought there was only $50ish in the jar so I was like yea, I'll give you $5 to count this for me and once your $221 is in the green machine, there's not much you can do about it
-You can get gift cards without a fee, but what am I gonna do with $221 to Starbucks?

So, I'm not going to sulk about what I shoulda done. Next time, I'll be hollerin' at one of you teachers to ride with me to the bank so I can cash in my piggy. But, for now, I'm going to be excited about my $199 that I didn't have this morning!

I'll let you know what I buy. It will most definately be for my new digs.

The View

2010-02-25T10:23:00.001-05:00

Here's what we're looking at today folks.

Photo by the ever talented Enrique.

Super Doubles Recap

2010-02-24T13:22:00.003-05:00

Super Doubles at Harris Teeter ended today.

I made four trips during the week.

Here’s the breakdown:

Date: 2/17
Retail: $47.92
VIC Savings: $1.94
Coupons: $30.87
Paid: $15.11
% Savings: 68%

Date: 2/18
Retail: $61.31
VIC Savings: $8.95
Coupons: $29.94
Paid: $32.21
% Savings: 53%

Date: 2/21
Retail: $23.05
VIC Savings: $0.18
Coupons: $12.18
Paid: $11.53
% Savings: 50%

Date: 2/23
Retail: $28.61
VIC Savings: $4.59
Coupons: $16.47
Paid: $13.17
% Savings: 46%

This week alone, I've saved $89.46 by using coupons!

Trip #1 is documented here.

I missed pics of trip #2 and trip #4 because I was on my cell phone when I got home and just went to unpacking without thinking of you and your pictorial needs, Dear Reader.

I did get Trip #3 though. That should be worth something.

Additional trip highlights include:
-more free wholly guacamole
-more free greek yogurt
-more cheap Yoplait Smoothies (which are an awesome quick alternative to making your own smoothie)
-FREE PREVACID! This one was an awesome score. I signed up for their email list a while back and received a $10 off coupon. The 14 day pack was on sale for $9.99. So excited about that one because while acid reflux is no fun, acid reflux meds prices are no fun either.

Well, that’s it. Down and dirty recap.

Next goal is to start keeping a price book. I hope to start that this week.

Goat Cheese Spinach Pizza

2010-02-22T08:03:00.000-05:00

First, let me just say this. Maybe you've noticed that I haven't been keeping my food diary like I should. Maybe not. Ha!

Yea. I seem not to ever follow through. But, I don't think I realized how much time would be involved with documenting EVERYTHING I eat via blog. It would be like a part-time job! So, I think what I'm going to start doing moving forward is just sharing the highlights.

So, without further ado...Goat Cheese Spinach Pizza!

I like pizza, but of course, it's not that good for you when you get say, the I Heart Rio Rancho. And, weird as it may be, I like to make pizza at home. I'm not really a fan of frozen pizzas. They just taste weird to me. I prefer to make my own.

I've been making Goat Cheese Spinach Pizza for a few years now and it's soooo good! Warm goat cheese has to be one of the best flavors EVER. It's expensive, but sooooo good!

Puppies Need Good Home

2010-02-19T10:06:00.002-05:00

My friends Leana and Adam are trying to find a good home for two puppies Leana found this week.

These two little pups were abandoned and found in Lillington. They've been to the vet and are approximately 11 week old Sheppard mix females.

They have been started on both Heartguard and Frontline, and it's expected they will be able to have their first shots next week.

Here is a little about each puppy (Leana went ahead and named them):

Roxy: She is the bigger of the two at 22lbs, and the dominate personality. Roxy is definitely the alpha of the two, and will steal her sisters food/treats if you don't watch her. She has lots of energy and loves to play with people and her sister. Roxy is VERY food motivated, which will be a great tool for training.

Maya: She weighs in at 18lbs, and is a bit more mellow than her sister. Maya loves to play, but does enjoy to curl up and take a nap soon after. It may take her a few minutes to warm up to a stranger, but she is eager to meet everyone. Maya is very loving and loves to sit with you and relax.

Both puppies are getting used to wearing collars and leashes. They are doing well with house training, but are still just learning.

Unfortunately, since Leana and Adam already have two dogs, they will not be able to keep these little ones. And, they're going to be big dogs so I wouldn't be able to keep them in my apartment.

If you, or anyone you know, is looking for a puppy (or two!) please forward this along. Anyone with interest or questions please let me know.

Maya

Roxy

Decisions, Decisions, Decisions

2010-02-19T08:00:00.000-05:00

Dear Reader,

You might or might not be aware of this, but I'm moving in less than three weeks. After almost 30 years, I will dwell all alone. By myself. Doing my own thang.

With this move, comes great excitement in that...I GET TO DECORATE FROM SCRATCH! In my current living situation, the only thing that belongs to me is my bedroom furniture. And, that furniture was purchased for me to have when I moved into my first apartment and is your pretty basic wood bedroom set. It too will be replaced eventually and passed down to either a sibling or nephew.

With this excitement, comes a feeling of being overwhelmed. I have an opportunity to do whatever I want. In whatever style I want. And, it scares me. What if I make a bad choice?

I read an article recently about how my generation is different from my mom's in that we have the luxury of craigslist which allows us to buy matching wing backs for $50 and reupholster them without a lot of investment. Therefore, we have the ability to be a little more adventerous. Use that wild fabric. Or, spend a little more on designer fabric. Because in the end, we didn't spend that much and we can always change it back.

So, I'm facing decisions. I'm realizing that I teeter between elegant, traditional and funky, modern and I don't which side to land on.

Dear Reader, I'm going to start counting on you. Expect to start seeing some posts about what I'm planning to do or what I'm debating about doing and expect to start providing feedback. I'm going to need your input.

Or, I might go crazy trying to make a decision.

What Happened in the 80s Should Stay in the 80s

2010-02-18T10:58:00.001-05:00

Where Is Everybody?

2010-02-17T20:36:00.002-05:00

I rolled over to the Harris Teeter at 7:00 this morning to hit up Super Doubles. Harris Teeter doubles coupons up to 99 cents every day and during Super Doubles, they double coupons up to $1.98.

My plan had been to get up at 6:00 so I wouldn't feel rushed. Of course, that didn't happen. So, at 7:00, I stumbled into the Starbucks connected to my Harris Teeter to put some pep into my step while shopping.

First things first, I searched out the manager to make sure it was indeed Super Doubles since I get all of my information via stay-at-home mommy blogs. Never fear, every register had a sign on it promoting the event.

I started shopping and was weirded out a bit. There were only about two other people in the store and NO couponers. Last time I went to Harris Teeter early in the Wednesday morning to hit a coupon event, it was packed with couponers. Not sure what that was about.

30 minutes in, I did manage to run into another couponer. We were both looking for the same soap. I felt very special in that she asked me a question about Harris Teeter’s coupon policy and I was able to answer it like a seasoned veteran (which, um, I’m not).

So, what did I get?

*Roses not included. They's Karen's. From her boyfriend.

Highlights include:
2 FREE Wholly Guacamole
FREE Greek Yogurt (finally trying it!)
.69 Olay Bar Soap
.69 Frappuccino
.50 Hummus
1.09 Yoplait Smoothie

Today’s Stats:
Retail: $47.92
VIC Savings: $1.94
Coupons: $30.87
Paid: $15.11
68% Savings!

Every Once In A While

2010-02-15T11:55:00.003-05:00

I stumble across a blog that results in me spending hours reading the entire thing because it's that good.

This is one of those blogs.

Invincible Love

2010-02-12T10:23:00.002-05:00

I decided to go back and read my 2008 Valentine’s post. Then, I read my I Choose Truth post from November.

Wow. We’ve hit the invincible love stage.

I am so grateful and humbled and thankful and awed and all other kinds of expressions of adoration. God has done such a great work in my life over the past two years and He’s still at it.

I have more to say, but I’m saving it for a very special post. I’m coming up on my two year anniversary of being dateless. And, that’s not a bad thing. Because while I’ve been impatient at times and have doubted His plans, let’s just say He’s firing a faith worth more than gold.

Stay tuned.

This Week I'm Going To (week of February 1)

2010-02-02T15:30:00.001-05:00

Get back on track!

Today's actually the 2nd and I've been bad over the past two weeks. BAD!

So, I'm setting two goals for this week:
1) Get back on track
2) Start eating oats for breakfast

In an effort to get goal #1 going, here's what I ate yesterday.

I Love NY Pizza Rio Rancho and a Mountain Dew. On the upside, I ate it at my work DEP. On the downside, it's a million calories.

For dinner last night, I made my award winning chili. It was so yummy with all the snow and ice outside. We had a delay yesterday morning and I left early to avoid driving after dark so I had a romantic dinner with my computer.

Now, goal #2. Start eating oats for breakfast. And, I'm not talking about the instant kind (although, I did that this morning). I'm reading SuperFoods Rx by Dr. Steven Pratt. The book details 14 SuperFoods that everyone should incorporate into their diet regularly. This week, I'm learning about oats and getting ready to make them a staple. Which should be fun, because I love them!

If you would like to learn more about oats, click here or here.

I Feel Like I Fell Down A Mountain

2010-02-02T15:30:00.000-05:00

Probably because I did. Quite a few times.

CYC hit up Wintergreen this weekend. We picked a great weekend to go. Friday night skiing was the normal fake stuff, but then Saturday morning, we woke up to this!

The fresh powder made for great ski conditions! It was an adventure getting up to Wintergreen. We had to push a Cherokee with our F150 and then abandoned him. Our friends behind us took forever to show up. Turns out someone had decided to drive their glorified golf cart (known to most as a Prius) up the mountain. To ski. Early in the morning. In the snow. Before the roads were completely cleared. Genius.

Now, tell me how come I look like a 12 year old? Remember Chubby Face? Yup, I gots it going on.

And, before any of you ask. No, these aren't our boyfriends.

This Weather's Crappy

2010-02-02T10:57:00.000-05:00

Enjoy this.

The Greatest Among You Will Be Your Servant

2010-02-01T19:56:00.008-05:00

Last weekend, I went with Galeed Baptist Church's Acteens to the Savannah Baptist Center for the weekend. The girls had went to the Center this past summer and fell in love with Pastor Harry and his ministry. I quickly learned why. Below is an article I wrote for the Center's winter newsletter.

The banner in the fellowship hall at the Savannah Baptist Center reads from Matthew 23:11: the greatest among you will be your servant.

Our team was honored to spend the past weekend serving in Savannah alongside Pastor Harry. From the child on the playground to the cashier at Popeye’s, Pastor Harry sees every person he comes in contact with for the child of God that they are. He gives love to those who thought they were unlovable and provides a smile of kindness to those who have been shown none. With his strong appearance, he is looked up to and respected yet shows humility through his quiet and gentle nature.

God is doing a great work in Savannah. Our entire trip was a blast – from going through the community inviting people to the block party to packing food bags for the hungry. We learned that cooking a meal is just as important as preaching from the pulpit when it comes to being a servant. Seeds were definitely planted during our time there and it is reassuring to know that in Isaiah God tells us that His word will not return empty without having accomplished what He desires.

As we’ve come back to North Carolina, we are encouraged and challenged by the team at the Savannah Baptist Center to serve our own communities more. They define what it means ‘to love your neighbor as yourself.’ They notice the needs of their community and do not rest until they are met. They look at the people who walk through their doors with the eyes of Jesus and use their hands and feet to project His love onto them.

There truly is no higher calling than being a servant.

Chili to serve 100!

Of course, I have to show you the food. We were on our own for dinner and of course, we hit up the soul food.

Ashely’s 23rd Psalm

2010-01-29T11:16:00.001-05:00

I am doing T.W. Hunt’s Disciple’s Prayer Life study. Today’s exercise was to think about the way you relate to God and write a personal 23rd Psalm, expressing your own individuality to God in prayer.

In 2006, I started competing in long distance running and have completed one marathon and a few half marathons. Most long distance races have pacesetters who run with balloons or flags to identify the pace they are keeping. Their job is to help a runner stay on pace so that they can meet a personal time goal.

I thought of my relationship with God being like a runner to a pacesetter. Here is Ashely’s 23rd Psalm:

The Lord is my Pacesetter;
I shall follow His lead.

He trains me in His ways;
He goes out in front of me.
He keeps my pace in His perfect timing;
He encourages me in the pursuit of holiness for the sake of His glory.

Yes, though I may grow tired and weary,
I will triumph over the enemy; for My Advocate is with me;
Your Spirit and Your Training Manual, they nourish me.

You prepare a route before me in the presence of my competitors;
You anoint my body with energy;
My endurance comes from You!

Surely strength and excellence will follow me all the miles of my life
And I shall finish the race and celebrate the victory with my Pacesetter forever!

A Mother's Love

2010-01-28T10:06:00.002-05:00

Pen Reyn and Dawnie B ran down Pauly D and The Situation and held them hostage at the candy shop so that their daughters could get their photo with their favorite trash reality show stars.

Is it just me or are the boys wearing matching jeans? Like, I'm one to talk, huh Lori and Karen?

Cube Before & After

2010-01-27T17:13:00.003-05:00

This is what I did today while waiting on my computer loaner.

Cube before (please note that this is not my actual cube because I forgot to take a picture, but it gives you a general idea):

Cube after (so pre-tay) (please note that this idea was not an original. Some other girls in my office had done this so I followed suit):

My loaner arrived and I'm working off webmail. Not fun.

Worker's Comp

2010-01-27T17:09:00.003-05:00

I had an accident at work today.

New To Me Blog

2010-01-27T15:47:00.002-05:00

While we wait on my computer to get back from the clinic, please enjoy this new to me blog!

Unprotected E-mail

2010-01-26T14:47:00.002-05:00

My computer is sick. It has been having unprotected e-mail with my boss and now, we have the blue screen of death.

I'm having a hard time getting work done today between the blue screen of death followed by restart cycle that keeps happening every half hour. So, needless to say, getting my Savannah weekend blog up and running is going to be delayed.

Hopefully, my computer will be cured soon. Please stay tuned.

Slacker

2010-01-21T16:59:00.002-05:00

I haven't taken any pictures thus far today because I haven't felt like it. AND, I've been a big ol' cheat who hasn't wanted to fess up.

Breakfast was Starbuck's with Jaime. I had a piece of lemon pound cake and a SF Vanilla Latte.

Lunch was Chili's. I had a triple play - chicken fingers and southwestern egg rolls. Saved the mini burger bites for tomorrow's lunch.

Going out to sushi for Mark Pace's birthday tonight.

Yea. It's been a cheat kinda day. Blame it on the rain.

The Food-oto Montage

2010-01-20T17:10:00.005-05:00

Hey everybody!

Sorry for the lack of blogging, but yours truly has been a bit snotty lately. Instead of trying to recap the past five days for you in detail, I'm going to present what I've dubbed THE FOOD-OTO MONTAGE (ooooo....aaaahhhhhh).

Saturday 8 am: Group 4M run at Shelley Lake. Proof of my feelings afterward.

Saturday 9:30ish am: Don't know what it is, but after my Saturday am long runs, I crave eggs! That's all I want. So, I scrambled up some with a little salsa and cheese plus a side of fruit.

Saturday 1:00 pm: After scarfing down my eggs, I met up over at my friend Emily's to help her unpack after moving to her new diggs. Of course, she supplied sustance for those of us who helped. Hungry Howie's!

My plate. Their garlic bread and flavored crust is to die for! Not pictured: second slice of pizza.

Saturday 9:00 pm: After watching UNC suffer a heartbreaking loss to GT, I went in to work to take care of some personal projects that I had been putting off and also ran a few errands. Next thing I knew, it was going on 9:00 and he was calling my name. Such the Casanova that Mr. Bojangles.

Sunday 12:30 pm: What I've failed to mention is that thru the day Saturday, Mama started to feel a little rough. I woke up Sunday am with a cold that was hitting me hard. I played it easy at lunch with a bowl of soup (plus I knew I had plans for the night).

Sunday 5:00 pm: Plans of Mexican food! I LURVE MEXICAN FOOD! Yummy fajitas are pictured. I ate half and took the rest home.

Monday 12:00 pm: Cold was still threatening. Decided to take the day off from running and ate lunch at my DEP in the atrium. Chicken noodle soup with saltines and a side of fruit.

Monday pm and Tuesday am: Not pictured. I had leftover fajitas for dinner on Monday and I don't think I ate anything on Tuesday. I haven't had much of an appetite.

Tuesday 12:00 pm: Heather met me for a 3.5M run (which was actually 3.9M in 46 minutes). It was GEE-OR-GEE-OUS outside! However, I'm not sure I should have run with the cold thing going on. I've heard if you're sick from the shoulders up, you can workout. And, if you're sick from the shoulders down, you should rest. So, I ran, but I did get goosebumps and chills from my sweat and it was um, in the 60s outside. But, I'm glad Heather came because it felt good to get the run in and she pushed me to plow through the congestion!

Proof.

Tuesday 1:15 pm: DEP issue. So, I'm doing my runs during lunch because that's what works with my schedule. But, I can't do that and get back in time to eat lunch at my DEP without taking like a two hour lunch. I'm going to have to figure out what to do here. However, I've noticed I've been eating slower at my desk because I'm working whereas if I don't have a distraction, I scarf the food down. Maybe I'm messed up? Cuz I think the point of the DEP is because you mindlessly eat. IDK. Whatch ya'll think?

The cold usual.

Tuesday 3:30 pm: Need to get that Vitamin C to boost the immune system. Do note the big box of tissues. Yummy!

Vitamin C in edible form.

Tuesday 7:00 pm: About 6:30, the weirdest thing happened. I got a craving for an original chicken sandwich from Burger King. Yea. I think I eat these once a year.

Craving satisfied. Wasn't all that great.

Food-oto Montage - THE END!

*I didn't take any pictures on Wednesday. Sorry ya'll!

Bank Shot of the Week

2010-01-19T10:13:00.002-05:00

My youngest sister Mary Caitlin was featured on WWAY Channel 3's Coaches Corner.

When you go to the link, it has several parts.
Go to Part 2.
MC's shot is at 4:30.

http://www.wwaytv3.com/vp/20364/coachs_corner_011710

This Week I'm Going To (week of January 18)

2010-01-18T11:33:00.001-05:00

Last night, I spent about two hours or so reading The Biggest Loser Simple Swaps: 100 Easy Changes to Start Living a Healthier Lifestyle. There were some pretty simple tips in there of things you could do to start being healthier. In reality, trying to incorporate all of these simple tips at once will be rather overwhelming. So, I have decided to start compiling a list of healthy habits to incorporate into my life and each week, I’ll focus on one new habit. Gradually, all of these habits will build on each other and (fingers crossed!), I’ll be on my way to a healthier lifestyle.

This week’s habit change is coming from the Fit Bottomed Girls’ 12 Tips for Permanent & Healthy Weight-Loss. Tip #10 is:

…pick a “Designated Eating Place” (“DEP” for short) and restrict your eating to this location. If you trade carrots for cookies when you’re sitting on the couch watching TV, you haven’t changed your behavior, you’ve only changed what you eat while watching TV. Such mindless eating is more often a reaction to boredom than hunger. Enjoy the foods you love at your DEP. You’ll be surprised by how much unnecessary munching you will cut out.

At home, my DEP is the kitchen table. At work, my DEP is either a table on our bridge or a table downstairs in the atrium. We have an area called ‘town hall’ that has tables, but there are TVs there. I think I’m going to stick to non-TV areas.

I think the biggest challenge as far as a sticking to a DEP is concerned will be at work. I have a bad habit of doing other things during lunch (such as running) and then going back to my desk to eat and work at the same time. Also, I’ll mindlessly munch on candy and snacks throughout the day when I’m in boring meetings so I think making myself eat in only one location will help with that.

At home, I always eat at the table. I’m not big on sitting on the couch and watching TV while eating. I think it’s because I like for things to be orderly and clean and I don’t want a hot mess on my couch. But, I do like to snack out of the bag later at night so I think making myself sit down at the table to snack will help curb that as well.

Wish me luck!

Do you have a DEP?

FYI: I’m fighting a cold right now (hence why I was reading for two hours yesterday), so I’m delayed on posting my food diary entries from the weekend. It might not happen today. My boss has already asked me about going home. But, please do pray that this cold gets better! I’m going on a mission trip to Savannah this weekend and I want to be in top shape!

Chili Cook Off

2010-01-15T17:35:00.002-05:00

Today’s thought process:

Work smells like chili (9:31 am)

That chili is making me hungry (10:55 am)

Really hungry (11:37 am)

Wait! Before we talk chili, let’s cover last night’s din din.

Lean Cuisine. I can NEVER eat them in the little black container. Just doesn’t seem real to me. I ALWAYS move the LC to a new bowl.

After dinner, I did my first day of my new bible study, Disciple's Prayer Life: Walking in Fellowship with God by TW Hunt. I feel like God’s getting ready to teach me and help me grow over the next 13 weeks and I can’t wait!

John and Karen came home and we watched two hours of The Jersey Shore or crack as I call it. John brought over some BoBo* Nutty Buddies and I had one. It was such a good treat!

So, this morning, I overslept a bit (are we seeing a pattern here?) and didn’t make anything for breakfast. I did do Day two of my bible study since I prefer to do it in the mornings. Once I got to work, I had a Fiber One bar.

At lunch time, I was hungry but wanted to save room for chili so I had a little bit of yesterday’s leftover pizza.

Confession: I did munch on some chocolate during the day.

Now, back to the chili.

Work has smelled good ALL day! Once a quarter, we have an all agency meeting where we are downloaded on what’s going on in the company, etc, and they always try to make it fun. In the past we’ve had an Oktoberfest theme and we went to Fearrington Village where we had an ‘Iron Chef’ experience.

Today’s theme was ‘Super Bowl’ complete with sports trivia, corn hole and a chili cook-off.

The slow cookers are lined up and ready for battle.

I guess this photo counts as my picture of what I ate because yes, I tried everyone! (and, I still thought mine was the best!)

Here she sits in all her glory. Cooker #3. Mother Vicki’s Famous Chili Recipe (aka the Poo-tetra Breeder).

Guess what!?! I actually won! I had joked all week about how I was going to annihilate all of the other chili’s, but I didn’t expect to actually win.

My winnings:

$75 in Teeter gift cards can go a loooonnnnggg way with this couponer!

Plans for the weekend:
-Go home and let six types of chili in my tummy have its way with me
-Menu planning (specifically focusing on breakfast everyday)
-Starting my inspiration book for decorating my new apartment (I’m moving in March!)
-Running 4M Saturday morning with MeMaw
-Helping Emily move
-Another restful Sunday consisting of church and Wii

Later My Taters!

*BoBo = generic brand

**It has been pointed out to me that I don’t put pictures of the ‘bad’ stuff on my blog. Yes, I’ve noticed as well. I need to be more accountable. I plan on you holding me to it!

No Picture For You

2010-01-14T19:06:00.001-05:00

Of last night’s dinner that is. I went to church for the Wednesday Night Supper and totally forgot to take a picture of my meal! We had a family sit with us that we didn’t know so that might have been like “um, this girl is taking pictures of her food.”

Anywho, I had baked chicken with some kinda sauce on top that I scrapped off with a wild rice of sorts, side salad and a roll. There were some mixed veggies, but I’m not sure what they were cooked in and it wasn’t very good. Sometimes, it’s hit or miss at church. But! Pat on my back, I skipped dessert. First time I’ve done that at one of those suppers!

This morning was my Thursday morning coffee with Jaime. We get together every Thursday to catch up, have some Starbucks and pray for one another. We’ve been doing this for probably two years now and I really look forward to it each week. It’s always nice to know someone’s approaching the Throne of Grace on your behalf each week!

Jaime was running a little late this morning so I hit up Bruegger’s next door and started without her. Rude, I know. But, all this running has me STARVING ALL THE TIME!

Everything bagel with onion and chive – Jaime’s nutritionist told her this bagel alone was two meals in one. Yikes!

SF Vanilla Latte with 2% milk – I really do not like skim milk. I’ve tried.

Confession time: I had a tiny box of nerds in a meeting this morning. Not sure why. I think I was bored.

Some of us girls went to The Loop for lunch. We haven’t all been out to lunch in a while so it was nice to get out of the office with each other for a bit. They’ve changed their menu recently and I forget the name of the pizza I got, but it’s basically a grilled veggie pizza minus purple onions which give me massive heartburn. I ate half of it.

Kathleen’s ready to dig into her salad.

No run today. I’ve ran the past three days and my legs are sore and need a break! I think I’m going to hold off until Saturday’s long training run.

Time to go home, do the first day of my new bible study and prep for tomorrow’s chili cook-off at work!

That's What You Get For Staying Up Past Your Bedtime

2010-01-13T17:23:00.002-05:00

In the last post, I talked about finishing Breaking Dawn. What I didn’t tell you is that I stayed up waaayyyy past my bedtime doing so. We’re talking past mid-night ya’ll. I don’t do that on the weekends.

And, I paid for it this morning. That’s what you get, as my mom would say.

I woke up late and woke up starving. I had to be in by 8:00 to finish an urgent project for a client and did what I knew I shouldn’t. But, I couldn’t resist him. Mr. Bojangles.

At lunch, I did a two mile run. My legs have been really sore lately and I was not pleased with my performance. However, I clocked the two miles in 24.26.49. That’s a little over 12 minutes per mile. Considering that was my old pace before surgery and my time has been improving over the past year and considering that I saw SchoolDude Dan on the greenway and paused to speak to him for a minute and considering my legs are sore, I’m not feeling too bad anymore. Kudos to me, friend.

Proof.

I hit up the Subway on the way back to the office. Sweet Onion Chicken Teriakyi with some delicious Sun Chips. Spicy Chipolte flavor which I hadn’t had before. YUMMY!

I found some fruit in the work kitchen again. I had a three hour call (notice the conference room table) that I ate lunch during and then grazed on the fruit until it was over.

Headed to church for dinner and some jabber jaw time with my mentoress Patti!

K, Bye!

AAANNNDDD, We're Done

2010-01-13T17:12:00.001-05:00

Let me draw your attention to The Grits Guide To Life section in the right toolbar. See it down there? Yes. For the past ETERNITY, I’ve been reading the Twilight Series and as of last night, I finished the last book Breaking Dawn! Hip Hip Hooray!

I really liked the series, however I did feel the books went on and on for quite a while in the beginning and then BAM! All the good stuff happens in two chapters in the end.

If you’re interested in reading the books, read them I say. If you’re interested in seeing the movies, enjoy the eye candy I say. I switched to Team Jacob following New Moon. I hate Taylor and Taylor didn’t last. She’s so cute.

You might remember that one of my priority 2 goals for 2010 is to read 25 books. Well, seeing that Breaking Dawn was a gazillion pages long and took me into the 13th day of the New Year, it’s going on the list. 24 to go ya’ll!

And A Jay Z Song Was On

2010-01-12T17:13:00.001-05:00

And a Jay Z song was on. And a Jay Z song was ooonnnnn…..

Maybe Miss Cyrus or the hissing geese put a little pep in my step, but something got me a little motivated during my lunch run today.

But, first things first.

Break-fuss.

Making breakfast a priority is something I’m trying to do. This morning I rolled out earlier than normal to get showered, fed and to do my Philippians bible study for this week.

I was going to have half a cinnamon bagel with yogurt, but something’s wrong with our toaster oven so I scratched that and opted for instant oatmeal and yogurt. I decided to light a pretty candle like Kath does.

Kath’s someone else I’ve discovered via blog land. She has a tribute to oatmeal on her blog which I love. I plan to take some time soon and steal all her variations on oatmeal for breakfast options. I love oatmeal - just not big on the instant kind (although, I bit the bullet this morning).

My bible study was pretty good. We’re going through Wiersbe’s Philippians study. This week was on Philippians 3:1-11. Paul is talking to the church at Philippi and reminding them that their works on Earth are counted loss in light of the work Christ did on the cross. It’s always a good reminder to stop and look at our actions and decisions and see if we are doing them in light of self or in light of the Cross.

Once I got to work, my stomach started GROWLING like a maniac. I devoured a 100 calorie bag of almonds and seemed to do okay.

The lunch time run happened again today. I’ve blocked my calendar during lunch for Tuesday-Thursday to ensure I get my runs in. I’ve realized that while running in the middle of the day might not be my preferred option, it’s what works with my schedule and it’s how life’s going to be until the sun comes up earlier or goes down later.

Here’s the proof.

My apologies go out to the man in the pea coat driving the Mercedes that was in my place of employment’s parking lot. I’m sorry that you had to witness me hacking a half dollar size loogie that was brought up from the bowels of my lungs and nasal passages. But, sir. It was impressive, no?

Not sure how far I went yet. Gotta mapmyrun.com it. But, I’m thinking it was around 3.5 and I did it in 40.30.07. Towards the end, I was starting to give out of gas and then, a Jay Z song was oooonnnn and I picked up. But, at the very, very end, I started having bad hunger pains. I need to figure out how to fuel my body correctly for mid-day runs. Any suggestions?

After my run, I was once again ill prepared for lunch and hit up the Chick-fil-a.

Chicken salad sandwich with some fruit I found in my work kitchen. When I was doing Weight Watchers, the chicken salad sandwich was only 6 points (I think) which isn’t too bad in points world.

These late lunches and all this running work up quite an appetite for me. After spending all afternoon in meetings, I snacked on some bell pepper and leftover hommous from Saturday.

All right, gotta put another day in the grind to bed, run a couple of errands and get over to church for bible study. Later My Taters!

Sushi With Shelly

2010-01-12T09:43:00.001-05:00

Monday night was Sushi With Shelly night.

We hit up the ever yummy Sushi Blues.

Noodles.

Edamame.

My favorite thing about edamame and Shelly is that the first time she had it, I was with her. She said, “what is it?” I said, “soy beans.” She said, “so we could go in the field in front of your parents house and make edamame?” I said, “yup.”

Unfortunately, I was quite excited when my Clapton Roll came and I forgot to take a picture! I’ve got to get better about that. I also didn’t snap my orange that they give you at the end of your meal.

I know sushi can be either really good for you or really bad for you. I sorta teeter in the middle. The Clapton Roll is fresh tuna, cucumber, roe, spicy mayo, scallions mixed on top of the California Roll. MM MMM GOOD! It’s my all time favorite!

Shelly opted for the Blues Roll which is fish tempura, avocado, cucumber, roe, scallion, and spicy mayonnaise. I had never tried that one before and it was delish.

Sushi’s one of my all time favorite meals. Do let me know if you know of any great hideaways that I might not know about! Right now, Sushi Blues and Sono are my staple restaurants.

Runnin' on the Lunch Hour

2010-01-11T17:46:00.003-05:00

Santa put these in my stocking. Yay!

I tested them out during lunch today. I've decided it's time to get serious - #2 on the Fit Bottomed Girls 12 Tips for Permanent & Healthy Weight-Loss - and get my runs in NO MATTER WHAT!

Since it stays butt dark until like 7:30 am and gets butt dark at like 5:00 pm, I thought I would take a long lunch break and work a little later so that I could run outside (I hate a treadmill). There's a greenway by my place of employment which makes for a lovely run.

Here's the proof. Do notice the flushed face. So pretty. And, I'm sure that new beanie's going leave a band of acne on my forehead. Band acne's so hot right now.

I also like my 'i'm in my work parking lot taking a picture of myself and look like an idiot' smirk.

Picked up Subway for lunch. The sub of the month is the Sweet Onion Chicken Teriyaki. Three bucks friends! It was the first time I had tried this sub and I liked it. I think I would have liked it better without with Sweet Onion Sauce actually. I think it was pretty good for me. I tried to keep it healthy and it was listed next to that Jared kid's face.

That's it for now! Getting ready to head out for Sushi with Shelly!

Eat Out Eat Smart

2010-01-11T17:41:00.000-05:00

Or something like that.

I tried. Don’t know if it’s healthy or not, but it was yummy!

We hit up Greek Fiesta after seeing Leap Year on Saturday. Good movie, good food!

I had a side of hommous and pita with a grilled chicken kabob.

Kara was my companion.

She was not interested in participating in the blog.

Supposedly, I’m in trouble if this picture gets posted. I’ll let you know if I get in trouble.

Yogurt Side? Say What!?

2010-01-11T17:39:00.000-05:00

Subway had made me happy! I rolled up into that piece on Thursday night and say what!?! I can get yogurt as a side. Sa-weet!

My First Beast

2010-01-11T17:36:00.001-05:00

Wednesday night. I had my first beast.

Or at least, that’s what The Fitnessista has dubbed ginormous salads. I discovered The Fitnessista as I began searching blog world for healthy eating tips and advice. I am really enjoying her entertaining blog and I really want to try one of her RAD workouts. I haven’t read back far enough to know for 100% that a beast is a ginormous salad, but I think that’s the gist of it.

I had also had my first Super Doubles experience. And, I had a coupon for this stuff.

I had seen Purely Decadent raved about on some blogs I’ve been reading and wanted to try it so I said “super doubles, I’ve got a coupon, why, not!?” I do love ice cream so something on the better for you side of ice cream’s not a bad idea.

I scooped out two spoonfuls and gave it a whirl.

Verdict: Okay. It was a strong coconut taste sorta like a Pina Colada flavored ice cream. Which on the flipside, might not be too bad because I don’t think I can eat more than a scoop or two in one sitting.

Do you have any low cal ice cream substitute recommendations?

Mall Walker

2010-01-07T21:35:00.004-05:00

I know, I know. I owe you guys two days worth of food diary posts. I was swamped at work today and had lunch and after work appointments so the blogging had to be delayed.

My after work appointment was my 60K service at Leith Honda. I'm going to plug Leith Honda here so just hold on a minute while I do so. (They haven't paid me to do so. I'm just a super happy customer!) My old service advisor left the company and their team didn't skip a beat with keeping this customer satisfied. I bought my car there in 2006 and have it serviced regularly. They are honest and just super nice people! I highly recommend them (and a Honda!)!

Okay, enough with the plug....the point is that my service was going to take three hours so they shuttled me to Triangle Town Center to kill some time. Since I missed the gym this morning, I decided to walk the mall. I didn't realize it was such a popular activity! There were probably at least 10 other people mall walkin' as well! I felt a little geriatric and weird with my backpack, but I'm glad I did it!

I walked pretty briskly for 35 minutes. Each end of the mall has an escalator so when I got to the end, I would go down and up the stairs quickly and then continue walking. All in all, I broke a sweat and felt pretty good about myself in the end! Cooldown was window shopping at Z Gallerie. :) I gotta make a note to tell Cheri about this mall walking stuff. I do believe she'll be a fan.

Oh, and Karen and I walked for 30ish minutes Wednesday night. It wasn't a rigorous workout, but at least it was something!

Day 2: Mr. Bojangles

2010-01-06T17:42:00.002-05:00

Mr. Bojangle’s…..oh, I love thee. Let me count the ways.

Egg and Cheese Biscuit
Bo Rounds
Sweet Tea
Country Ham Biscuit
Seasoned Fries
Dirty Rice
Bo Berry Biscuit

I have a go-to drive thru in the am when I’m starving and know there’s NO WAY I will make it to lunch without eating. It’s on Western Blvd. In fact, I did $500 worth of damage to my car in that drive thru.

My stomach was growling. My head was aching. The sweet tea was a callin’.

While I’m not proud of my decision, it sure was good. Just gotta have more…

For lunch, I had leftover chili was a handful of Colby Jack shredded cheese mixed in and a handful of Fritos. I’ll spare you from a repeat picture.

There was lunch brought in for a meeting yesterday so I snagged a plate of leftovers since I have bible study on Tuesday nights and knew I was going to have to make a pit stop somewhere for something to eat.

Penne pasta with some veggies in there and dum, dum, dum…WHITE CREAM SAUCE. You know that’s sittin’ on my hips two-day. I also had a slice of bread and a lemon bar. Those lemon bars are soooo good!

I’ve really got to start educating myself on proper nutrition because I’m noticing some things like I’m not getting in enough healthy calories and by the end of the work day, I’m exhausted, fatigued and not satiated.

I’ve decided this weekend is going to be devoted to healthy grocery shopping and getting ed-u-ma-kay-ted. I’m also going to give my sister Lauren a call. She’s a nutritionist and I caught it for asking for recommendations for a dietitian/nutritionist. (Although, to my defense, she’s got a three year old and I didn’t know if she’d be up with dealing with me.)

WORKOUT: We’re 0 for two this week. Yikes!

Need Your Input

2010-01-06T12:36:00.000-05:00

Hey guys!

I'm thinking about going to see a registered dietitian/nutritionist. Got any suggestions?

Super Doubles

2010-01-06T09:40:00.002-05:00

Super Doubles started today at Harris Teeter. HT doubles coupons up to 99 cents every day. During Super Doubles, they double coupons up to $1.98 face value. It's the best time to use those high value coupons and for me, it's a chance to try new products.

{Do you like that I went to the grocer on the way to work and took a picture in my cube? :)}

Retail: $40.87

VIC Savings: $5.89

Coupon Savings: $19.27

Paid: $15.71

62% Savings

A few issues:

-I set my alarm to go at 6:00 this morning and of course, I overslept. My loss. I had two coupons for Wholly Guacamole that would have been FREE and they were all gone when I got to HT.

-The Heluva Good Dip coupon that I had was expired so I didn't realize any savings there. I didn't have her take it off. Maybe I should have.

-Two of my $1.00 value coupons only doubled at 64 cents. Not sure why, but Angela, my cashier hated me and the rest of the early morning couponers (man, there were a bunch!) so I decided 80 cents wasn't worth making her any more miserable.

I noticed as I was shopping that I started to grab convenience items because I had a coupon. But, I thought about my new 2010 goal and decided to pass on some things. I'm hoping that I can get myself in a regular shopping schedule this year.

I decided to try two new products since I had coupons. I've seen the Purely Decadent Coconut Milk ice cream on a few of the food blogs I've been reading. It's non-dairy and non-soy so I thought I'd give it a whirl since I could get it at a discount. Also, I decided to try the Nature Valley Nut Clusters. Not sure these will become a staple because they are mighty expensive for not much clustering.

And, before you say anything about the Nancy's Crabcakes and the dip, let me defend myself. Being involved in a class at church means that I constantly have events to go to where I have to bring a snack/appetizer/something. I decided to grab these two items since they were relatively cheap for when such events arise.

Okay - I need to do some work. Make sure to stop by the Teeter today!

The First Day

2010-01-05T18:31:00.003-05:00

I took a picture of my muffin top to show you what we’re working with here and why the 2010 “Being A Healthy Eater” Goal is necessario. However, I did not feel that the entire all of cyber world needed to be seeing that mess. Maybe one day when I can post it up next to my rockin’ six pack, you’ll get to see it.

Kara’s called me out on my late post. I’m trying to figure out how this is going to work. I initially thought I would post a day late. For example, I’ll post Tuesday about what I ate on Monday. I planned on coming into work 15-20 minutes early to do my post, but this morning I slept until 8! Seriously, ya’ll. 8 o’clock. 10 hours of sleep friends. I think I was suffering from NYE jet lag. Since in to work early didn’t happen, I’m not sure the day late posting is going to work. As for now, we’re just going to get started and hopefully, some process will work itself out.

Now, for the moment everyone has been waiting for! My first day of posting pictures of what I eat! Here are the details for Monday.

I didn’t eat breakfast. This is something I need to work on. Breakfast is important. Breakfast keeps you going. It fills you up and sustains you to lunch so that you don’t go stuff your face full of Pollo Fundido at the El Dorado. And, I never eat it. One of my mini-healthy eating goals for January is to start eating the breakfast.

What did I have? A coke.

I’m addicted. Always wanting that sugary caffeine goodness. I also snuck one Valentine’s Day Hershey Kiss (not pictured) outta my boss’ office. My boss sits across from me and keeps a candy jar full of whatever seasonal Kiss is out at the time. Dangerous considering that I have to sit in a 30 minute meeting three times a week in front of said jar. I might have to ask her to get rid of it.

Next, came the test. I had a lunch meeting. Annnnnnnd….you don’t have a picture. I couldn’t get the guts up to say ‘um, I need to take a photo of my food.’ Maybe as word spreads on what I’m doing, I’ll get more comfortable with it, but just wasn’t ready to yet. So for lunch, I will just have to tell you about it. It was:

½ Quizno’s Turkey Sub on Wheat with Lettuce, Tomato and Mustard
1 bag of Lay’s Baked Potato Chips
Water
1 Reeses’ Peanut Butter Cup heart (again, the Boss! but I did skip the HUGE Quizno’s cookie so pat on my back)

Not only do I have to work on eating breakfast, but I need to be more prepared with a daily snack. Never fails, 3:00 hits and this sister is HONGRY.

Yay for the Oats and Apple Streusel Fiber One Bar that was in my desk drawer!

I got home from work around 6:30. Thanks to the holidays and just pure laziness, my pantry is emptied and I had no clue what I was going to eat for dinner. It was so tempting to roll into a drive thru somewhere, but I thought “I can’t be a fat kid on my first day!” So, I rolled to the Teeter instead and got the makings for some yummy chili. It was super yummy considering how cold it was outside!

That wraps up my first day of tracking what I’m eating. I did notice something. Did you?

Yup, you guessed it! How do I know if I’m being healthy or not? I need to educate myself on nutrition and come up with some sort of plan. I did Weight Watchers in the spring of 2009 and it was okay. There’s one qualm that I have with WW and it’s that you don’t really know if something is good or nutritious. Foods are assigned point values and you have a certain number of points that you are allowed to eat daily. But, you’re not really educated on whether those foods are healthy, nutritious and filling. I didn’t really feel like I learned much about food. I would eat a 10 point Pollo Fundido (half a day’s allowance) and starve for the rest of the day.

Does anyone have any other good ideas? I’m going to start researching calorie counting and also study some nutrition textbooks.

WORKOUT: Yea, I didn’t.

2010 Goals

2010-01-04T08:00:00.001-05:00

I’ve been putting a lot of thought into what I want to achieve in 2010. I was listening to one of the talk radio shows last week on my way to work and they said the best way to achieve your goals was to only set one. Pick one habit that you want to change.

This thought overwhelmed me a bit. Just one thing? Seriously? I got to thinking about my friend Stephanie who decided to work on humility in 2009. Her entire year was focused on that one thing. I thought it was sort of neat. And, I’ve been a little disenchanted with the blog lately so maybe picking one thing and making it a project for the blog would be a good idea.

So, I started thinking that maybe I can focus on being more Christ-like. Yea. That’s a good one I thought. But, it’s a little too broad. Being Christ-like is my entire being. Everything about me needs to be Christ-like. It needs more focus. I need one thing that I can work on in order to glorify Him more.

I am going to make being healthier my goal for 2010. Specifically, eating better. I am #1 on eating out with friends, hitting a drive thru, Starbucks, processed foods and ice cream when I want it. That’s me. So, in 2010, I’m going to eat better.

How am I going to do that you ask? Well, you, dear reader, are going to hold me accountable. Starting on January 4, I’m going to take a photo of everything I eat and I am going to post it here on the Drawl. I think knowing that I have to post what goes into my mouth will make me think twice about that Pollo Fundido. I’m going to research and educate myself along the way (and of course, let you know what I find out).

It’s my prayer that by January 1, 2011:
-I cook more than I eat out each week
-I have lost 10 lbs
-Processed foods are kept at a minimum
-That I’m educated about nutrition and what I’m putting into my body
-I workout on a regular basis

You’re probably thinking "that’s nice Ashely, but what does eating have to do with being Christ-like." Well, I’ve thought about this and prayed about it. Luke tells us in chapter two that Jesus grew physically, mentally, socially and spiritually. I think it’s a good idea to set goals in these categories as long as they glorify Him.

Our bodies are a temple and we should treat them as such. One area that I struggle in with food is that I’m an emotional eater (i.e. bored=food in mouth) and at certain points I think I fall into gluttony and indulge too much. Notice that I call it a struggle, yet when you get down to it, eating too much is a sin. After eating too much, I wind up feeling sick, guilty and frustrated. After eating out too much, I wind up feeling guilty, upset and frustrated with my lack of good stewardship of my money.

And, while this is my #1A priority for 2010, I am still going to work on other areas:

better prayer life: Patti and I are going to do a study on prayer this spring semester and I am going to aim to have one day a week (separate from my quiet time) where I spend at least 30 minutes in prayer.
memorize scripture: My goal is one verse a month.
workout more: I think this will naturally happen if I’m eating better and striving to be healthy. My goal is to do some type of activity at least five days a week.
do better with my finances: I did pretty well in 2009 with getting on track so I’m just going to continue making progress.
serve more: I’m praying about where God wants me to serve and am going to start seeking out opportunities.
do my quiet time everyday: This was going good for a while and it has fallen off during the busy Christmas season. Go figure we’re celebrating His birth and I can’t find time to spend with Him. We’re going to get back on track this week.
read: My goal is to read 25 books this year.

What are your goals?

2009 Wasn't Too Shabby

2010-01-01T10:28:00.002-05:00

Let’s preface by saying that this post was worked on for around an hour and completed until blogger decided to send it into the unknown. So, here’s the second go round.

I started off 2009 pretty lazy and failed to make a list of goals for the year. I set goals. I don’t resolve to do anything. My lack of goal setting should explain why I don’t resolve.

Never fear, my friend Faith had tagged me and requested that I make five predictions for 2009. Let’s see how I did.

1. I predict that the UNC Tar Heels men's basketball team will win the NCAA championship and NC State will not be invited to the NIT.

Check.

2. I predict that at least two more couples in CYC will get engaged.

Check. Congratulations Andrew and Keri and Dave and Anna! CYC had five marriages in 2009. Whew!

3. I predict that my physical appearance will be altered - whether the bee's knees or a big ol' hot mess - only time will tell.

Check. At the time, I was thinking I would try to loose that annoying 15 lbs (which didn’t happen). But, after sevenish years of pleading to insurance companies, doing physical therapy and praying, His timing was perfect. In February, I got my boobies chopped off (as I like to say). Not one iota of regret and it’s been the greatest thing ever. I feel great, my back doesn’t hurt, and my running pace has increased. Yay!

4. I predict that 80s glam rock hair will make a comeback and Tonya will lead the effort here in Raleigh.

Well, not so much. Tonya became a mommy in September and my new prediction is that around 2030, Finley and her friends will rock the tall bangs better than Tawny ever could. You know the trends always come back around.

5. I predict that I will know how to cook more than three meals by the end of the year.

Check. The three to start with were macaroni-and-cheese, hot dogs and spaghetti. Now, we’ve added Strawberry Goat Cheese Grilled Chicken Salad and Cilantro-Lime Chicken with Avocado Salsa. I cooked a lot more in 2009 and am working on building a repertoire of 30ish recipes that I enjoy. I cooked some other things throughout the year, but they haven’t made the cut.

I thought I did pretty well with my predictions. And, even though I never made an official goal list for 2009, there were some things I accomplished that I’m rather excited about.

In 2009, I became satisfied in who I am in Christ. I have realized that I didn’t go on one date in 2009. In fact, I haven’t been on a date since March 2008. And, I’m okay with that. In no way, do I not long to have a boyfriend or be married. But in 2009, I think I really learned to become content in my relationship with Christ and to let him fulfill those longings. It’s something I have to ask Him to do everyday. I remind myself that if it will bring Him more glory for me to be married, then He will provide. Read more about it here.

In 2009, I finally got my Benjamin’s in order. Well, maybe not Benjamin’s. During the summer, I thought I would do a challenge where I would spend less money and save. People still ask me how it went. Yea. I didn’t do a good job of tracking. But, in October, I FINALLY sat my butt down for a few hours and made a budget.

I’ve read Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover and Baby Step #1 is to pay off all debt (credit cards, student loans, cars, houses). He also advocates using cash only and I decided to give it a whirl. My debit card is now the devil. I never realized how much I would spend when using my debit card. Now that I use cash, I evaluate every purchase I make and decide whether it’s only $5 and I need it are true justifications for the purchase. Shopping takes a little longer, but hey, I’m saving money. I also picked up a new couponing hobby which I hope to get better at over the next year.

Since October (three months ago when I FINALLY sat down!), I’ve put more than $630 towards paying down debt. This amount doesn’t include the regular monthly amount I have budgeted towards paying down debt. This money was what I call ‘left-over’s.’ It’s what was left at the end of the month because I’m spending less thanks to using cash and coupons. And, it’s like crack. I can’t wait to see what I accomplish in 2010!

There were other highlights to the year such as the Twilight addiction, going to Mexico for Lesh and Doug’s wedding and discovering Google Reader. But, the above two are the ones that I really feel like I focused on and accomplished with God’s help. All in all, 2009 wasn’t too shabby. Let’s get ready for 2010, shall we?

25 Days of Christmas

2009-12-03T11:07:00.003-05:00

I'm probably the only grown woman without kids who gets excited about ABC Family and especially the yearly 25 Days of Christmas programming. I love the daily Christmas movies and the ever exciting weekend marathons. Is there anyone out there who's with me!?

Tonight's calendar is pretty wide open once I complete my grocery shopping. I think I'll make some hot chocolate (or maybe walk over to Starbucks for a Signature Hot Chocolate - YUM) and cozy up on the couch to watch The Polar Express.

Facebook, I Need To Quit You

2009-11-30T11:01:00.002-05:00

You may have noticed. Yes, it's true. I've deactivated the Facebook.

I've debated fasting from it for a while. A friend of mine did it. She said that it was rather refreshing and once she turned Facebook back on, she wasn't going to the site as much.

I've noticed that I'll get on there and all of a sudden 45 minutes have passed and I've spent my time looking at pictures of kids whose parents I don't talk to and probably wouldn't know they existed were it not for the Facebook. Social media's great, but between Facebook, Google Reader, my blog and basic email, I'm just wasting a lot of time away.

So, I decided that we would take a baby step. With the holiday season here, everything is hustle and bustle. Time is always flying by. So, I decided to shut down the Facebook until 2010 and try to get a little bit of that time back. Perhaps I'll spend it preparing some goals for 2010.

We'll see how it goes. I give it a week max.

I Am Thankful

2009-11-25T13:54:00.003-05:00

Happy Thanksgiving Ya'll!

Ephesians 1
The Blessings of Redemption

Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, To the saints who are at Ephesus and who are faithful in Christ Jesus: Grace to you and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ, just as He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world, that we would be holy and blameless before Him In love He predestined us to adoption as sons through Jesus Christ to Himself, according to the kind intention of His will, to the praise of the glory of His grace, which He freely bestowed on us in the Beloved. In Him we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of His grace which He lavished on us. In all wisdom and insight He made known to us the mystery of His will, according to His kind intention which He purposed in Him with a view to an administration suitable to the fullness of the times, that is, the summing up of all things in Christ, things in the heavens and things on the earth. In Him also we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to His purpose who works all things after the counsel of His will, to the end that we who were the first to hope in Christ would be to the praise of His glory.
In Him, you also, after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation--having also believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise, who is given as a pledge of our inheritance, with a view to the redemption of God's own possession, to the praise of His glory.

For this reason I too, having heard of the faith in the Lord Jesus which exists among you and your love for all the saints, do not cease giving thanks for you, while making mention of you in my prayers; that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give to you a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of Him. I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened, so that you will know what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe. These are in accordance with the working of the strength of His might which He brought about in Christ, when He raised Him from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come. And He put all things in subjection under His feet, and gave Him as head over all things to the church, which is His body, the fullness of Him who fills all in all.

Hello, House Beautiful Part II

2009-11-24T08:00:00.002-05:00

Approximately two minutes after my last post, I was ashamed of myself.

I had logged onto Facebook and saw that my friend Sarah was back from her mission trip to Honduras. And, she had posted pictures! One of the pictures prior to this one was captioned with something to the extent of 'our crew working on building concrete floors.' Then, there was this picture showing an excited family with their new floor.

Look at their home: the floor is new, but there is still a gap between the floor and the walls. There is no electricity. There are no couches, ottomans, beds or flat screen TVs. It's a one room house.

Immediately, I was ashamed about spending an entire post talking about nothing but the materials things that I love and would make me so happy. Quickly, I was reminded by the Holy Spirit 'to store up my treasures in heaven' and that material things truly are meaningless in the big scheme of things.

Not that I think it's wrong to have nice things. But, when we're bad stewards of the money God has given us and we make those things more important than Him and than others, that's when we start to mess up. I'm slowly learning that being a servant is the highest calling we have and giving all of myself and possessions to others is more gratifying than having a pretty ottoman.

And, to fill you in, I saw Sarah on Sunday. She told me that the mother in this picture was so happy about getting this concrete floor and so determined that her family was going have get it that she was working with the men to get the job done. Apparently, they were up on a mountain and had to hike a ways down with 5 gallon buckets to get water to make the floor. Sarah said the mother was carrying a full bucket up on her shoulder (barefoot mind you!) and at one point, she had the bucket on one shoulder and was breast feeding her baby with the other arm!

I love this picture and I hope it says ingrained in my mind. This picture is one of a joyful wife and mother with her House Beautiful. It's a million times prettier than the images in my House Beautiful.

Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. ~ Matthew 6:19-21

High on the Hog: Hickory Smoked Tuna Quesadilla

2009-11-23T20:37:00.003-05:00

On Saturday, Shelly, The Blanchards and I went to Sue Stock's couponing class. It was great! We learned more than I think we could imagine. And, we didn't leave empty handed! Shelly won a bag of rice and The Blanchards won a $50 gift card to Lowe's Foods. I expect they'll invite me over to enjoy their winnings once they cook with them - hint, hint. :)

Faye Prosser of smartspendingresources.com was the other speaker at the class and she did a bit on menu planning using your stockpile from couponing. A stockpile is literally an inventory of non-perishables that you create by buying multiples of items when they are at their rock bottom price. Faye and other couponers say that you should look to your pantry for something to cook rather than picking a recipe first. So, I decided to give that a try tonight. Here is what I had (puh-leeze don't even ask me if that's my picture cuz you know it's not).

I had a pouch of StarKist Tuna Creations Hickory Smoked flavor that I had gotten for free during Harris Teeter triple coupons. There was a recipe on the back for a quesadilla that looked pretty good. I actually had the ingredients on hand - cream cheese, roasted red peppers, cheese, and cream cheese so I tried it out.

Now, I had not tried this Tuna Creation bit yet and the quesadilla was actually pretty good. The hard part was getting over the hickory smoked tuna smell. I thought I was going to vomit when I first opened the package.

My goal is to continue to grow my stockpile and hopefully be able to update you with my menus more often! But, I don't think you're going to see the tuna quesadilla again.

My Parents Were Awesome

2009-11-20T19:59:00.003-05:00

I came across My Parents Were Awesome recently via Snippet and Ink.

I hope you enjoy it as much as I have!

Image from My Parents Were Awesome.

Hello, House Beautiful

2009-11-19T08:00:00.000-05:00

Tuesday was a long BUSY day and I was super tired when I got home. Much to my delight, this was waiting for me in my mailbox!

My first issue of my new ($5 amazon.com deal) House Beautiful subscription. I use to scour through my mom's copies when I was younger. Little do people know, I'm a HUGE decorating fan. I'm the girl who has all of her copies of Southern Living (which has gone south a bit - no pun intended), Better Homes and Gardens and Domino (RIP). I think if I could have my dream job, it would be doing the social media/marketing/advertising for some top notch southern designer. A friend of mine said 'why don't you find a job doing that?' Okay. Yea. I'll get right on it.

Now, I need your opinion, dear reader. Would it be wrong to leave the postman a note asking that he treat the House Beautiful with upmost respect and NOT cram it into our super small tube that's meant to be a mailbox? Please see exhibit A below.

Nevertheless, I didn't check my mail until 9ish and stayed up way too late on a school night combing through this issue drooling at ever picture. Then, I dreamed I got a job working for Phoebe Howard.

I've been looking for a new place to live over the past week (can't take much more of living in the frat boy hood) and have been getting way ahead of myself thinking of all of the great furniture I could buy for my new pad. Hopefully, I'll get back to Planet Earth here soon and realize that the apartment I absolutely LURVE really is out of my price range and could potentially be hazardous to my health if I am within walking distance of Target. And, buying a whole lotta great furniture might not be the best idea if I'm probably going to be moving again in a couple of years when I buy a place and want new stuff all over again. Dave Ramsey is sitting on my shoulder saying 'Live like no one else, so that later, you can live like no one else.' I'M TRYIN' DAVE! I'M TRYIN'!

But, there's no hurt in having a hobby I guess? So, here's some living room eye candy from housebeautiful.com to tide us over.

Absolutely, positively, 100% in love with this ottoman!

The symetry of theses lamps and mirrors is divine!

Now, this is WAY outta my comfort zone and I would never go there as far as my own house is concerned, but you gotta love this couch and rug!

In completely random news, I've been a little burnt out at work (itchin' for a vacate I think) and decided to add some pep to my step with this new lovely notebook for my to-do list/note taking needs. It truly has helped with my motorvation!

Considering

2009-11-18T08:00:00.000-05:00

Details here.

High on the Hog: Wii Deal!

2009-11-17T08:00:00.000-05:00

Check out this Wii deal on amazon.com.

I've put off getting my Wii for a year now and I think it's now time to do it!

Total $289
Wii
Wii Fit Plus with Balance Board
Wii Play with Remote (I’m going to buy that with the $50 gift card)

Thanks Couponing to Disney!

The Girl and The Boy Together

2009-11-16T08:00:00.000-05:00

Isn't this the cutest thing ever!?!? When Andrew was six, he wrote this book that was latered merged with photos of him and his finance, Jami, to make one super cool engagement invite!

Here's to Andrew's mom for not throwing the book away!

JAE's Normal

2009-11-13T08:00:00.000-05:00

Click here to read some good thoughts from my friend John about his 'normal' life. John is currently serving the Kingdom in the Amazon Basin of Brazil with the mission Project AmaZon!

I Choose Truth

2009-11-12T12:30:00.003-05:00

In previous posts, I have mentioned that I’m part of the Woman to Woman Mentoring program at church and that Patti is my mentor. We are doing the study Lies Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

When Patti first asked me about doing this study, I wasn’t really feeling it because it has chapters that deal with marriage and children and things that basically aren’t relevant to me. Little did I know, God had something in store for me.

This past week’s study has been on ‘Honoring God in My Marriage.’ I seriously highly recommend it to all my girlfriends – married or not. It’s just awesome. In fact, I think it’s great that I’m going through this study before even dating someone. Just the truths that God is revealing to me and teaching me will not only prepare me to get married if He wills it, but prepare me for dating as well.

As God would have it, the first day that I started the section on marriage this week, a friend of mine replies to an email I sent her in regards to Harris Teeter Triple Coupons week and says ‘hey, if you’re ever on Facebook’ (like I’m never on Facebook), you should look up this guy and see if his profile is private or not. I think of you just about every time I talk to him.’ Random.

I thought ‘why don’t I humor myself.’ See, I normally don’t let people (whether it be my mom, my BFF, a co-worker, someone at church) ‘set me up’ because I’m not comfortable going out with someone I don’t know. I have one primary rule when it comes to dating. If they’re not a Christian, I won’t even consider it. I feel like letting someone set me up puts an important part of my life in their hands and opens me up to possibly falling for someone who’s not a Christian. And, in Christian, I mean someone who believes the truth that we are sinners, believes that Christ died on the cross and rose from the dead to pay the penalty for our sins, and that no other way than trusting in Jesus and Jesus alone will get them into Heaven. Secondary rule is that not only do they have to be a Christian, but they have to be producing fruit and growing in their walk.

So, I log on to Facebook to ‘humor myself’ and low and behold, this guy’s profile is not private and he appears to be an active Christian. Now, I go into analyzing mode. It’s not is he cute (well, maybe a little), what’s his job or how’s he dressed. It is: does he take the Bible literally and believe the real gospel, would he be God’s will for me and not my will, is he bearing fruit, does he appear to be embracing his role as a godly man, is allowing my friend to ‘set me up’ constitute my initiating and does it mean I’m not trusting in God’s perfect timing? (For instance, I won’t do online dating because I feel that I’m not trusting that his timing is in fact, perfect and that by actively seeking a husband means I’m controlling my life and not Him.)

Well, my friend was given the green light to pass along my info and the second round of questions came: what if he just calls me up and doesn’t try to find out about me? Does that mean he’ll compromise on who he goes out with? I don’t want to go out with someone who will compromise. What if his profile is just an act? What if he believes a false gospel? What if, what if, what if….

I stressed myself out about this and I had not even met the person, right? Maybe I was a little ahead of myself in some opinions, but it was such a praise to see how God has worked in my life over the past year, actually over the past few months. A year ago, this would not have been a case. It was a praise to see that while being attracted to someone is good and going out on a date is fun (oh, it’s just one little date – don’t we like to tell ourselves that girls?); seeking God’s best has become my number one priority. I’m truly learning to lay it all down at the foot of the cross and to let Him run the show. And, it’s all His doing. Only the Holy Spirit working in my life has made me this way. It’s nothing of my own doing and I think I was more excited about that, then the prospect of some guy actually calling me.

It only took a few days and then it came – the lies. There are lies that come into my head - lies that come from the enemy about how I should perceive this situation since I haven’t heard a peep from this guy.

Lies that I believe about myself: My profile’s not that bad is it? I know I’m not photogenic, but what’s wrong with me. Maybe I am that bad. Maybe I should get my nose done since it has that bump in it from breaking it playing softball. I hate my two chins that appear when I smile. Maybe I’m too goofy. Why won’t anyone like me? Am I worthless?

Lies that I believe about God: God doesn’t really love me. If He did, I would be married with kids by now. He’s too restrictive. There’s nothing wrong with me initiating a little convo is there? Is not that bad of is it? I have a lot of baggage. Maybe God hates my sin so much that He doesn’t want me to experience happiness.

Lies that I believe about guys: Can’t I be happy for once? A boyfriend will make me happy. Can’t I date someone and get married and be happy? Maybe I should send him an e-mail. If I don’t take initiative, nothing will happen. Most of them are shy anyway. They’re okay with girls being bold and making it easy on them.

These lies are things that we don’t like to say out loud, but things that all of us girls feel to be true at some point. These are things that the enemy is throwing at me right now to try to pull me into deception and ultimately destroy me.

But, God reigns. And, this study that I’m doing has been such a blessing and has been in perfect timing. It has taught me to recognize these feelings and emotions that spring up and take them for what they are – lies. And, I will not entertain them. I choose truth. I choose scripture. I choose to surrender my own rights and my own will to bring glory to Him.

TRUTH: God always has my best interest at heart. (Psalm 21)

TRUTH: God’s restrictions are always for my good. (James 1:19-27)

TRUTH: My value is not determined by what others think of me or what I think of myself. My value is determined by how God views me. (Psalm 139:1-18; Ephesians 1:3-8; 1 Peter 2:4)

TRUTH: I will always have unfulfilled longings this side of heaven. (Romans 8:23, 25; Ephesians 3:11; Hebrews 11:13-16)

TRUTH: If I will accept them, unfulfilled longings will increase my longing for God and for heaven. (Deuteronomy 8:3; Psalm 34:8-10; Philippians 3:20-4:1)

TRUTH: There is no person who can meet my deepest needs. No one and nothing can make me truly happy, apart from God. (Psalm 62:5; 118:8-9; Jeremiah 17:5-7)

TRUTH: God has promised to provide everything I need. If He will receive more glory by me being married, then He will provide a husband for me. (1 Chronicles 29:11-12; Job 42:1-2; Proverbs 16:9; 1 Corinthians 7:25-38)

TRUTH: Those who wait on the Lord always get His best. Those who insist on getting what they want often end up with heartache. (Psalm 37:4; 106:15; Jeremiah 17:5-8)

TRUTH: God created the man to be an initiator and the woman to be a responder. (Genesis 3:6)

TRUTH: If a woman takes the reins rather than waiting on God to move her husband, her husband is likely to be less motivated to fulfill his God-given responsibility. (Genesis 16:1-2; Psalm 27:14)

God is sovereign and He has a plan for me. He will provide His best for me as long as I surrender to Him and allow Him to change me into the most Christ-like woman that I can be. It is not going to be easy and I’m sure there will be rough days. The lies are going to come and they are going to come hard. But, “He gives a greater grace” and those lies will be replaced with Truth.

We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. ~ 2 Corinthians 10:5

Note: The Truths list was adapted from Lies Women Believe by Nancy Leigh DeMoss.

30% off Gap, Banana Republic and Old Navy

2009-11-12T08:00:00.001-05:00

Click here to download your 30% off coupon for Gap, Banana Republic, Old Navy and their outlet stores. 5% of proceeds will be donated to The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society. Good Nov. 12-15 only.

We're planning on hitting up OBX this weekend if the weather cooperates, so I'll definitely have my coupon in tow for the outlets!

This post has me reminiscing of my Team In Training days. Remember this?!?!

Murder Mystery Dinner Party

2009-11-11T08:00:00.001-05:00

Saturday night, the Blanchard's (hehe - we sound old) had some of us CYCers over for a Murder Mystery Party. Unfortunately, I don't have my booklet anymore to tell you who all was who and what the plot was and who killed who in detail. What I can tell you is this:

These five lovely girls were not the killer.

J. Ellis Mann a.k.a. Dave was the killer! That's him on the far right.

My character was Madame Liza Lott. Kid-you-not, it was two days later before I realized that my name was Liza Lott and actually got it. DOH! Dressing up like a gypsy was so fun! I went shopping in Cheri and Karen's closets and the only purchased item was the Christmas ornament that served as my fortune ball and the mini-garland that served as part of my head scarf. So, frugal am I!

This is Turn a.k.a. Mark. I just had to post this picture because it makes me laugh.

Here's Andy. Andy didn't RSVP correctly and since you can only have 10 people involved, he didn't have a character. We decided to let him be Chef Boyardee. I could not take him seriously with that mustache!

This is Brantley, our gracious host. He played Iggy, the radio announcer/ladies' man.

The game's in progress:

All in all, it was a lot of fun! There were different 'rounds' of the game where everyone had different clues that they had to share with everyone. Once everyone got into it and the accusations were flying, it got very exciting!

It Feels Like I'm Breathing

2009-11-09T08:00:00.006-05:00

I've spent the last couple of weeks reflecting on this complacency that I've seemed to fallen into. I realized that this is the first summer in four years that I haven't been on a mission trip and I just seemed to let the lack of a trip and the lack of that yearly spiritual high that I've come to depend on serve as an excuse to become complacent with my walk and my purpose in this world. Satan has been winning over the past few months. He's gotten me to live the "Christian life" without alone time and intimacy with Jesus. And, that's caused me to become defeated and ineffective. (what do you know - Casting Crowns' Slow Fade is playing on the mix as I type this)

Over the past few weeks, the complacency has started to break. Christ holds true to His promise to draw us near to Him. As Third Day says, it feels like I'm born again. Not in a 'born again' saved kinda way, cause I've got my salvation. It's a one time thing. But, it's that continous process of sanctification and renewing of my mind that is making me feel like I'm born again. It feels like I'm living. It feels like I'm breathing. It feels like I'm moving.

A month or so ago, God answered a specific prayer showing just how powerful He is. That prayer didn't effect me personally and probably wasn't that big of a deal in the end, but He had placed it on my heart. It was the one thing I had still going with Him really. Satan, the World and my day to day 'priorities' were slowly sucking up the rest. God used that experience to draw me back to Him. I was making Him small and he needed to show me just how great He is, how much He loves us and how the small things matter. It's so easy to run off a spiritual high until you get your next one. Those highs are good. Answered prayers are good. But, I'm learning that it is also in the everyday mundane life activities where great faith is showed and He is glorified.

It's the waiting, the daily obedience, the persistent praying, and the rejoicing in small blessings when you're not sure you're in the perfect job for you, when you start going to more baby showers than wedding showers, when you feel like you can't get everything on your 'to-do' list done, when everyone else seems way ahead, when your emotions seem to get the best of you, when your circumstances just don't seem to suit you, when life just doesn't seem fair. It's the humbling yourself to allow Him to take over and provide you grace to get throughout the day. It's learning to find joy and contentment in Christ and Christ alone no matter what He has in store for you in life. It's knowing that He is forever faithful and that He will use YOU, AN UNWORTHY SINNER to bring glory to Himself. It's all of these things that grows your faith into one that can move a mountain.

He's showing me that a great faith can't be built without time with Him. He's put that desire to spend time with Him in me and is waking me up each morning. We're going on two weeks now of consistent daily time together. 30 minutes each morning is changing my life. It's been two of the best weeks of my life. I haven't been in a foreign country working with orphans or roofing a house in South Carolina. Great evangelical things aren't happening all around me. I've been right here in Raleigh. In my everyday. In my 'complacent' life, He's teaching me that it's His life for me and it glorifies Him no matter how 'complacent' it seems to me. He's teaching me what it means to be fully satisfied in Him. It feels great. It feels like I'm breathing again...

Song of the South: Everything Is Different

2009-11-06T08:00:00.000-05:00

Shane and Shane's new CD Everything Is Different came out on Tuesday. I,of course, had a reminder set on my Outlook, had iTunes downloading by 10:00 am and changed my Song of the South image shortly thereafter. Didn't know I was such a fan? Shame on me for you not knowing.
Shane and Shane are by far my favorite Christian group. Mainly because most of their songs are based on specific scripture. For instance, they have an ENTIRE CD called Psalms which are (duh) songs of the Psalms. It's amazing how many times that I have found myself in a situation reciting (or singing really): the Lord is gracious and slow to anger. He is rich in love. He is good to all. All who call on Him in truth He is near to and He hears their cry and saves them. That's Psalms 145. And, because I have Shane and Shane on repeat in the car, I've memorized Truth that the Holy Spirit can bring to mind when it's needed. And, that's pretty dag um cool if you ask me.

As for the CD, I'm not sure it's their best (I don't think anything will top An Evening with Shane and Shane) but it's still good.

On a random side note, since I've gotten back to regular blogging, I spent some time fishing through some old posts. Look at 2008 and you see posts about my walk and how God was working in my life. I was reading the Valentine's 2008 post earlier and just felt so happy about how far he's taken me in a year and a half. But, my posting about it has stopped and it makes me sad especially considering that to live is Christ.

So, no more my friends. No more. His mercies are new each morning and they need to be shared. And, I expect some accountability from you reader when they are missing. Some check in, please.

I'm in the Woman to Woman mentoring program at church and Patti's my mentor (shout out to Patti!). We're doing a study on Lies That Women Believe that I SO did not want to do when she asked about it, but God wanted to teach me some things and it's just been great. Expect a blog about it next week. (Look, I'm committed. Gotta do it now.)

{Exit random side note}

One of my favorite songs thus far on Everything Is Different is called Great Reward. Here's a little preview. ENJOY!

Gainfully Unemployed

2009-11-05T08:00:00.000-05:00

I wanted to share this piece of a gem with you guys. Gainfully Unemployed is a new blog that was started by my former boss Janet. Unfortunately for me, Janet left in January and work has not been the same since. I have days where I say 'man, I miss my McVic.'

Janet has a great style of writing and is quite witty! She's only got a few posts thus far, but I can't wait to see what she rolls out for us!

So, head on over to Gainfully Unemployed and check her out!

The Trees Are No Joke

2009-11-04T08:00:00.001-05:00

My N.C. State friends forwarded me this blog post from espn.com's Heather Dinich in July. She ranked Kenan Stadium as the fourth toughest place to play in the ACC and seemed to base her conclusion on our picturesque pine trees. Joke were made. Whatever.

This past Monday, WRAL broke the news that Heather might have been on to something when two UNC students were struck by a falling tree on campus.

Happy Birthday Mama!

2009-11-03T11:43:00.002-05:00

Today's my mama's birthday so I have to give her a quick shout out! She's all excited because her and my dad are going on a date tonight.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA!

City of Oaks Half Marathon 2009

2009-11-03T08:00:00.000-05:00

Or, we could call this post Racing in the Rain.

Rain, it did. It rained cats and dogs. It rained 'til the cows came home. It rained a monsoon. It did not rain men though. Too bad about that.

5 a.m. Sunday morning didn't come too early seeing as we got an extra hour of sleep after falling back on Halloween night. However, it was still early and the weather was crazy.

For those of you who were still sleeping off your late Halloween night out, at 5 a.m. Sunday morning it was 69 degrees. About 5:20 a.m. it started pouring and by 6:00 when we left for the City of Oaks Half Marathon, it had dropped seven degrees.

And, the temperature continued to drop and the rain continued to pour.

Keri, Becki and I were the runners plus Mark who is a gazelle and runs 13 miles in less than 90 minutes and had to wait a hour for us at the finish. He is beyond out of control. I keep trying to talk him into running a marathon. Maybe one day.

Here we are near Cameron Village between Miles 5&6. We had some awesome spectators that included Andrew (Keri's fiancee!), Andrew's parents (Keri's future in-laws!), Lisa and Kristine. They were such an encouragement to us and it was so awesome that they woke up early to stand in the freezing rain and cheer us on!

See this dude. Yea, he's hard core. He was running along side of us in the beginning with combat boots, the backpack, the flag, the whole kit-and-caboodle. I think we cheered for him just as loud as the spectators did.

Keri and Becki around Mile 10. Where's Ashely you ask?

Oh, there she is!

I'm the one who always keeps up until Mile 7/8ish and then starts slowing down. I'm thankful though that my friends aren't those friends. Like the girl I came up on around Mile 8 who was LITERALLY every two seconds was saying to her struggling friend 'come on,' 'you can do it,' 'it's only five more miles,' 'you can do it.' She was driving ME nuts and I didn't even know her. A Care Bear Stare was quickly given to her. It was all I could do to not tell her to shut up and leave her friend alone before she ruined the whole experience for her resulting into a lifelong ban of all running activites.

Please do notice that my shirt is caught up in my fuel belt. Apparently, it was like that for most of the race. So, not cool.

These guys here are the 2 hour 30 minute pace leaders. Pace leaders are normally found in larger races and their purpose is to help you pace yourself so that you can meet your race goal. My goal was to stay in front of them as my best so far has been 2:30 and I would love to beat that. I did stay in front of them until about Mile 7 when I started tireing (is that a word?) down and then they passed me around Mile 10 and I just never could catch back up. They finished about 100 yards in front of me. I'm not sure what my final time was because the site's down and I wasn't paying attention. Fingers crossed that we were early, but I doubt it.

Here's Keri coming into the finish. One day I'll finish with her. One day. I could see her and Becki in front of me on Western at Mile 12.5ish. So close they were.

Yay Becki! Becki was a blast to train with! It was her first half marathon and first race more than 5K so it was fun after every long run to hear her say 'I've never run that far before!'

And, last but not least, here I come! Do please notice the rain. In fact, you have probably noticed it in all of the photographs. And, as you notice the rain, notice that we're all still smiles!

I've come to realize that I'll never be a fast runner and finish with the serious faces. But, I don't care. It's so awesome to run slower, have a blast and say 'good mornin' ya'll' to everyone I pass. Being in the back is where it's at!

Finishers! Happy to be done and eating yummy snacks! So ready for the heat in the car!

And, yes. I am a dork who wears her race shirt to work the next day and proudly looks at everyone with a snot-ball look on her face that says 'I ran 13.1 miles yesterday with sheets of rain plowing into me. What did you do?'

*Please note that the pictures that are not of my group were borrowed from the City of Oaks website 2009 candid shots. Hopefully, they will not mind.

Redicklous

2009-11-02T08:00:00.000-05:00

Apparently, our boy JJ is working on a rap CD. Maybe his gangta name can be Redicklous.

I particularly like that the reporters are laughing at him throughout the entire interview.

I thought maybe this site was like The Onion or something, but unfortunately for America, it appears to be real.

The Frightmare

2009-10-30T11:37:00.003-04:00

I'm going to start this post off by saying that if you've never been to a haunted house with Karen, Ashley or Kara, I highly recommend that you call them up and get a once in a lifetime experience.

Last night, we decided to check out The Frightmare. Unlike last year's Raleigh Jaycees Terror at Possum Creek, there was no large group and there were no men. Karen did not have the brave, burly and gallant John there to protect her so she used me as her shield instead.

We're really good at psyching ourselves at and with it being a Thursday night, the house was deserted and there were no patrons. We sat in the parking lot a good 10 minutes trying to decide if this place was really legit since it was a ghost town (da dum dum) and tumbleweeds were blowing by. The conversation went like this:

Karen: I'm so nervous ya'll. I can't do this! I can't do this!
Ashley: I'm not going in there until we talk to someone about it. I will not be touched. They can't touch me.
Me: What if they see four girls and knock us out and sell us into human trafficking? It could happen.
Karen: No, it won't.
Me: Yes, it COULD happen. How would anyone find us? There's no one here.
Kara sits in silence with a look of terror on her face.
Ashley: I will NOT be touched. Where's the exit? I don't see anyone coming out of this joint.

A Honda mini-van and a car pull up. From them exit, two large men with mullets, two women, a twelve year old girl and a seven year old boy.

Me: Let's go! Let's go! We can on in with them.
Karen: Seriously. A child. Let's go. It can't be that bad.

Reluctantly, we exited the safety of Terry the X-terra and entered into the unknowns of The Frightmare. After paying for our tickets and confirming multiple times that no one would in fact touch us, we went in. The experience went something like this:

Karen, Ashley and Kara: Ashely, you have to go first.
Me: Why me? Why do I have to be the brave one?

I would love to see what we looked like going through this thing. Four almost 30 year old women, linked up like a conga line shuffling really slowly through haunted twists and turns. Screaming at the top of our lungs. I'm sure the people in the house got a kick out of us. I know some dude with a Jason mask laughed at us at one point and it wasn't an evil sinister laugh but more of a America's Funniest Home Videos hearty laugh. Mind you, The Frightmare is in 3-D so we not only were conga lining it, but we were conga lining it in some really super cool glasses.

A few minutes into the house.

Karen: Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh.
Me (being held in a Full Nelson by Karen): Karen, I can't breathe.
Ashley: They better not touch me.
Kara brings up the rear in silence with a look of terror on her face.

Scary man jumps out of corner.
Everyone screams.

Me: Karen, I can't breathe.

A scary man jumps out of another corner.
Everyone screams.
Karen's hands in her Full Nelson have moved from my shoulders to my chest.

Me: NOW, WAIT A MINUTE!

We enter into a 3-D room that takes you around in circles and we can't figure out how to get out.
Scary man jumps out of corner.
Everyone screams.

Karen: I'm not looking! I'm not looking!
Me: Karen, I can't breathe.
Ashley: They BETTER not touch me.
Kara brings up the rear in silence with a look of terror on her face.

Me (breaking out into a fit of coughing/choking): I can't breathe. I can't breate.
Man with blungeoned face and in scary homicidal killer outfit: Ma'm, are you okay?

All jokes aside, us girls had a blast and we made it out alive though perhaps some a little bruised and beaten. I'm not going to be a spoiler and give anymore details. But, I will say that it blows that Possum Creek place out of the water and the 3-D was neat. Check it out if you get a chance and give me a call if you do! I might be up for it again!

High on the Hog: Writing to Companies

2009-10-29T08:00:00.005-04:00

Kristin over at Couponing to Disney has a series called 5 A Day. The idea behind 5 A Day is that you can write to companies and receive coupons/free product just for providing feedback. She explains in more detail of how to do this here.

At first, I was like this is a little whack, time consuming and simply crazy lady, but then I got to thinking about my friends at the Starbucks near church. I thought someone really needs to tell Starbucks corporate how awesome they really are. Thus, I decided to play 5 A Day (which is really one a day for me). So far, I've only sent notes into Caribou Coffee, Starbucks and Scrubbing Bubbles. Yes, Scrubbing Bubbles is random, but I'm almost out of it.

Starbucks has not responded. Caribou simply said thanks. Scrubbing Bubbles (aka SC Johnson) on the other hand, is sending me a coupon booklet and the customer service rep filled me in on which products are safe for my refurbished tub! So helpful! I hope my booklet arrives before I need to buy a new bottle of product.

And, yes, I am fully aware that I am now officially crazy.

High on the Hog: Target $1.50

2009-10-28T08:00:00.004-04:00

Since I'm new to this couponing business, I thought I would start a series called High on the Hog.

High on the Hog is how I hope to be livin', eatin' and just plain bein' while using coupons to save on my out of pocket cost. So, sit back, relax and enjoy the excitement of scoring some cheap stuff!

So, without further ado.....da da dum....my first High on the Hog post!

On Monday, I had to stop by Target to pick up a few items for my coupon organization binder (post forthcoming) and decided to attempt some couponing (I'm doing baby steps to start off with).

Total: $1.50 (+ tax)

Keebler Chips Deluxe

Retail: $2.00

Sale: buy 2 get 1 free

used a manufactor's printable coupon for $1.50/2 and a Target printable for $1/2

WOW-ZA!

Booger the Monster Pumpkin

2009-10-27T15:40:00.009-04:00

Hello, this is Booger the Monster Pumpkin.

I carved Booger the Monster Pumpkin Friday night at Keri's Annual Pumpkin-n-Pastry party. Before the creation began, we bellyed up to a good ol' southern comfort meal of chicken-n-pastry, sweet peas, butter beans, sweet potato casserole, biscuits, deviled eggs and sweet tea! It was like being at church homecoming without the treacherous feelin' of pantyhose riddin' up.

And, they're off! Let the carving begin!

This is Marcie. Say 'hello, Marcie.' Marcie is an art teacher and makes you sick with her super cool pumpkins. You just wait. Oh, and I guess her husband Brantley helped her. :)

This is Keri. Say 'hello, Keri.' Keri is an amazing cook and makes you sick with her super yummy dishes. You saw what I mean with that southern spread.

This is Melissa. Say 'hello, Melissa.' This is Melissa breaking her 40th carving tool.

We were going to vote for our favorites, but the aforementioned boyfriend Andrew carved Jesus onto his pumpkin. You can't not vote for Jesus. But, next to Jesus, I really like Tim's autobot.

I mentioned Marcie's talent. Below is her Pumpkin Snake/Chinese Dragon. It's supposed to be a snake. I think it looks like a Chinese dragon. See, I told you she'd make you sick.

HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYONE!

'Bout Time!

2009-10-26T22:10:00.002-04:00

It's 'bout time I did it! That's right ya'll - I bought a new camera!

After a few puppy-sitting weekends, saving 'found money' and my birthday, I marched into Best Buy like a twelve year old with her cash allowance, handed over a wad of 10s and 20s and happily exclaimed 'I'm buying this camera with my birthday money!'

It's probaby one of the first purchase in a while that I've been proud of since I saved and waited before rushing out and buying one because I 'needed' it.

So, let the blogging begin! (AGAIN!)

The Last 20-Something

2009-10-21T17:01:00.010-04:00

On October 9, I celebrated my last 20-something birthday. And, it was a great day! My birthday was on a Friday and I took the Friday before and after off. Everyone asked why I worked on my birthday, but work much I did not. My company had our annual Oktoberfest party on my birthday so it was like a party all day! We had some fun, chowed down on some brats and played musical chairs to yoldling music. Yes, we're adults and musical chairs is a kid game, but it was so much fun! And, I won! Yay me!

When Oktoberfest wrapped up, the balloons were brought to my cube. PS - some of my co-workers didn't understand why the balloons were red, yellow and black. Seriously? Really? You don't know why? Please notice my lovely home away from home.

Another tradition in my company. The infamous photoshoped birthday poster that hangs all over the office. I gotta say, I loved mine. Karen was obviously behind this one. Do you know how I would have KILLED to have that outfit back in the day? A lot of people had not seen Teen Witch so we spent a good bit of time playing clips on youtube which killed a good half hour. If you're reading this and you haven't seen Teen Witch, do let me know! We will have a viewing party pronto! During Oktoberfest, my coworker Ben said 'I wouldn't get any german chocolate cake if I was you?' That's like blasphemy as far as I am concerned because I am a sweets fanatic. But, I listened and later that afternoon, his wife Erica stopped by with my birthday cake!

Here's the awesome thing about the cake - it's a nerds cake! It's chocolate and has got some kind of hard chocolate chip things on the inside and is topped with nerds! Erica is a sweetheart. She had made this cake MONTHS ago for someone else and I said 'I want a nerds cake on my birthday.' Low and behold, she remembered and made me a nerds cake!

The birthday night was rounded out with dinner with my Carolina girls at Porter's and a party with the CYC crew at Derek's. So fun!

My girl Kara is nine days younger than me (but, a WHOLE grade behind mind you) and we decided to take the next Friday off and use our 'free round of golf on your birthday' coupons at Pine Hollow in Clayton. Free golf is nice, but we were charged $16 in cart fees! But, all in all, $16 for 18 holes is pretty good.

It was cold and had been rainy the whole day before so the ground was pretty wet. But, it was nice because there was no one behind us, rushing us and helping to increase my frustration.

Here's Miss Kara teeing off. She shot 46 on the back nine and 100 overall. We won't discuss my lack of shooting.

HOWEVER, while I didn't do well overall, I did tee off over this here body of water in which my ball SKIPPED on the water and went up on the green! I probably could have pared the hole had it not been for the pooping Herring that was in the way.

All in all, my Last 20-something was loads of fun! A good time was had. Kara has since celebrated her last 20-something as well. We went to El Rodeo to practice for our Big 3-0 trip that's planned for October 2010! Can you guess where we are going!?

$5 Off The Proposal

2009-10-13T16:33:00.002-04:00

As you know, I've recently begun couponing and plan on sharing more about my money saving good times in the future. To read about my first couponing experience, click here.

I'm super excited because I found a deal that I haven't seen on any of my regularly visited couponing blogs. Makes me feel good!

The Proposal is by far my favorite movie of the year! I mean, who didn't loose it when she did the fire dancing part with Grandma?! So, I was heading to Target after work to purchase it as a late birthday present to myself - sale or no sale. But, lookie what I found today! $5 off DVD or $10 off Blu-Ray coupon here.

Go and get 'em girls!

Ashely's Birthday Wish List

2009-09-25T14:33:00.003-04:00

Two weeks to my birthday and I want just one thing please. A new camera. The blog is suffering because my last one died and I have no show to the show and tells that I could be providing to you.

I even have a special envelope full (well, maybe not full) of savings to help contribute to the cause.

I'm thinking about this one.

I went a couponing...

2009-09-21T22:03:00.003-04:00

I went a couponing this evening. It was the first time that I've tried it and I don't think I did to bad for a newbie. I had heard about couponing from some ladies at church and stumbled across the blogs of some SERIOUS couponers. My number one question for these bloggers is WHERE DO YOU KEEP THE STUFF? Are you next in line to be on an episode of hoarders? But, while where they keep the stuff is their business, I did appreciate the tips.

Harris Teeter is running triple coupons through tomorrow. I followed the rules and browsed my circular and went in ready to shop. It took quite a bit longer than a regular trip, but I think it was worth it.

My lessons learned:
-you can only triple coupons up to 99 cents
-you can only triple the coupons outta the newspaper (so my smart attempt at googling for coupons based on the circulart backfired)

So, here's the breakdown on my first trip: I spent $22.51 and saved $21.30 in coupons and $11.25 in VIC savings. Pretty good I think...especially considering two items in my cart were Ben & Jerry pints! Oooo...I hear the freezer calling me....

100 Years of Carolina Basketball

2009-09-17T12:49:00.003-04:00

On September 4, Lindsay and I were able to go to the UNC alumni game (thanks to Sara!) celebrating 100 years of Carolina basketball.

Here is the video that they played at the start of the game:

Here are the highlights:

I do love being a Tar Heel!

44 Days

2009-08-20T13:33:00.002-04:00

Dear More Than a Drawl,

I've been a bad belle. Correspondence with you has been at an all time low. It's been 44 days since we last spoke. It's as if I left you in the wilderness. All alone. Without a friend.

As penitence, please feel free to mock me after viewing the following clip.

I Won!

2009-07-07T11:06:00.003-04:00

Check this out. I won the book Everyone She Loved by Shiela Curran in a contest on the Girls With Books blog! I don't think I've ever won anything. Okay. I take that back. I did win tickets to The Nutcracker on the radio one time, but I got sick and had to give them away to my roommate's mom.

If you like to read, make sure to check out the Girls With Books blog. They have had some good reccomendations!

How exciting!

Summer Savings Challenge

2009-07-01T17:19:00.003-04:00

I was reading a This List Called Lucky post today (during a meeting, shush, don't tell) and Kellie inspired me to create my own challenge. I've been thinking of setting up monthly goals, but I think a challenge would be more fun. And, obviously, you guys will hold me accountable, right? You're not going to let me spend, okay? Are you on board 'cuz I am!

My Summer Savings Challenge is going to take place for the next 62 days (July and August)! Every week, I will check in with you on how I'm doing. Be merciful please as I get started. It's going to be tough!

The Rules:

Weekday Lunches - I can eat out lunch out one time per work week.

Starbucks Iced SF Vanilla with 2% milk ($4 a pop) - Thursday morning only

iTunes - I'm disconnecting my credit card. If I wanna buy some music, I'm gonna have to get a gift card from someone I guess.

Blockbuster online subscription - Already cancelled today. That's $10 a month right there!

Weekends - I am limiting myself to one weekend activity that costs money. I'm going to have to spend a lot of time at the pool or reading in the park and get creative with my entertainment.

Retail - Not happening. No buying. No magazines. No books. No bottled water cause I just want one. No clothes. This one is going to be the hardest. My plan is if I want something, I'm going to have to start a savings plan for it and if come September 1, I still want it, then I can get it. (I imagine by then, I'll be like whateves. I don't need those shoes.)

Exceptions to the Rules

Special Occasions - Every once in a while, it's someone's birthday or a friend is in town or you know. So, I'm not going to be strict on myself when it comes to things like that. But, it has to be a really, really special occasion.

Necessities - Toiletries, Gas, Groceries, Bills. Gotta have them.

Mattresses - I need a new set bad and have been saving. My piggy bank is almost there and I'm getting my mattresses!

Bonus Points

Bonus points are earned like this. When I'm in Target next week purchasing toothpaste (neccessities only, right?) and I look across and see the new shiny Jennifer Weiner book staring at me, I will walk away without purchasing it and earn my $25 bonus points. That $25 is how much the hardcover book would have cost me. Since I did not spend that $25 on the book, I'm going to stick it into my bonus points account. Come September 1, we'll tally up the bonus points earned and see how well I've done! (I'm not 100% sure if this one will work, but we'll try it out.)

Here we go. It's July 1! Wish me luck!

I Would Like

2009-06-22T17:21:00.001-04:00

To have a beach house and to have the pillow below on my big oceanview bed at said beach house.

Pillow and image from etsy shop humblecollection.

Jai Ho

2009-06-19T23:08:00.002-04:00

If it wasn't for the fact that I have such a budding career in pharmaceutical marketing, I would so be doing this with my life.

(get to the two minute mark of the video for the good stuff)

Where The Wild Things Are

2009-06-16T11:28:00.001-04:00

Did ya'll know one my favorite books as a child is being made into a movie? I have to say I am a little excited.

Watch the trailer here.

Poker Face

2009-06-15T16:23:00.001-04:00

I'm baaaccckkk! Actually, I've been back for a week. Just busy and behind on gettin' the blog updated with all things Mexico.

While you wait, please enjoy this acoustic version of Poker Face.

Mouth of the South ~ I Suwannee

I'm Out

2009-06-02T23:39:00.003-04:00

You can find me here.

Ol' Kenny

2009-06-01T15:26:00.000-04:00

See him over there on the right side? I'll tell you what. The boy's music will put you in the right mood for your Mexican fiesta of a vacation!

Time to Get Pumped Ya'll

2009-06-01T15:21:00.001-04:00

Maybe One Day

2009-05-22T22:11:00.003-04:00

This bride makes me happy. She has a ponytail!

Mouth of the South ~ Snippet and Ink

Maybe...

2009-05-20T16:11:00.001-04:00

Maybe I'm overdoing it with the Culinary Adventures 'cuz I definitely bought some Ponzu Sauce this weekend and have not a clue as to what for. Maybe secretly I was craving sushi. Maybe I should hit up Sono this weekend. Maybe I will do just that.